@PippiDeLena
"Why are you trying so hard to defend PA? Your first post was horrifying and I reported it for victim blaming, and now you're saying it was "just straight sex"."
I am not victim blaming. I am not defending PA. We do not know for a fact that he has done anything wrong. There are inconsistencies in VRs statements which were touched on in the interview. There are also things that PA has said that do not stack up and which I don't believe.
We do not know if PA abused VR.
We do not know if PA had sex with VR. (I am of the opinion that they did have sex but there is no proof).
If PA had sex with VR, we do not know whether PA knew that JE coerced her into having sex with him.
If PA had sex with VR, and did not know she was coerced into doing so by JE, then I am saying it is not necessarily abuse.
If they just had straight sex, which may have been the case as it didn't take long, and VR has stated "he was not mean" then it doesnt sound like she was abused by him.
PA may have a big enough ego to think that VR fancied him and they were just two people enjoying sex.
"Are you saying the victim couldn't be too traumatised by being forced to have sex with a sweaty middle aged man because it was "just straight sex" and she wasn't dragged off the street screaming, then beaten to a pulp?"
No. I am absolutely not saying that but to classify him as an abuser is wrong if he did not know she was coerced and if he did not know that she was underage.
The whole thread is full of all of us speculating about what happened. None of us know. I hope that somehow the files that were sealed when JE first went to prison will be able to be be unsealed so that everyone who is guilty of sexual abuse against minors and young women are dealt with appropriately through the courts. That means EVERY person who has committed a crime here. It would actually be good if the secret recordings, sordid as that is, were available to help with prosecutions.
The US should make this a special case and not allow for plea bargaining and guilty people going free.