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Wedding invite and the mindfield.

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FirstTimePoll · 20/11/2019 22:57

Was hoping to create a poll.

Not giving any specifics as want to keep it vague.

Ultimately, my question is would you attend this wedding as C?

3 siblings. Sibling A getting married. Siblings B and C not married, both in relationships, neither live with their partners yet, neither relationship very long yet but both see futures/longevity. Sibling B has a history of shortish relationships. Sibling C has had 1 very long relationship previously. Sibling A has met both partners once due to logistics of life/distance. Sibling B's partner gets invited to the wedding. Sibling C told no +1. If you were sibling C, would you go or see it as a snub?

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Binglebong · 29/11/2019 18:03

I was thinking about this, is it possible that your sister is likely to monopolise your parents all day? It could be that A thinks that will happen and stop them enjoying the day/celebrating her and having a partner there will reduce it. She knows you're not going to do that so dont "need" a partner in the same way.

Blondeshavemorefun · 29/11/2019 18:26

Totally rude of your sister

You dont invite one siblings partner and not the other

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