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Ibleedibreedibreaatfeed · 21/10/2019 19:12

Mainly the brand changing its packaging to be trans friendly. Are we slowly eradicating womenhood? Along with " pregnant person". It feels such a slippery slope.

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SweetPetrichor · 23/10/2019 21:38

Does it matter...really? If it makes some people feel better, and honestly, who notices the labels on packets. It's a non-issue.

Pandainmyporridge · 23/10/2019 21:42

But it makes me feel worse - don't my feelings matter too?

Michelleoftheresistance · 23/10/2019 21:58

Amazing how important it is to some to tell women firmly that this Doesn't Matter. When there are threads everywhere from women saying that to them, it does.

ControversialFerret · 24/10/2019 15:00

Does it matter...really? If it makes some people feel better, and honestly, who notices the labels on packets. It's a non-issue.

Read back through the thread - on the face of it this seems like a big fuss over nothing, but it's actually symptomatic of a far wider issue. The whole meaning of 'woman' is being changed.

Ibleedibreedibreaatfeed · 24/10/2019 22:22

It matters to me. I'm a women i try and live my life within the mysogony, male violence. I get told to not to be too sensitive if i complain. If i sit on public transport and a man opens his legs as far as possible. Im the problem if i complain. The way i see it is we are biological female male or hermaphrodite. That is our sex. If you were buried a 1000yrs and dug up that's what the dna would say. If you have dysmorhia and have surgery to change to your chosen gender then you should be respected as your sex. But before surgery and no self I'd.

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Ibleedibreedibreaatfeed · 24/10/2019 22:23

The threads on fb about breastfeeding now chest feeding etc is a slow erasure as well!!!

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TriJo · 24/10/2019 22:27

Can honestly say that I have never given a single fuck about the wrappers on my pads. There could have been middle fingers on it the whole time and I wouldn't have noticed.

pikapikachu · 24/10/2019 22:54

Men can get breast cancer so where does chest feeding come from?

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Ibleedibreedibreaatfeed · 26/10/2019 15:36

They dont like the term breast. As it's triggering

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Ibleedibreedibreaatfeed · 26/10/2019 15:37

They dong like the term breast

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ControversialFerret · 26/10/2019 18:11

I know people will be reading this thread and thinking it's a viper's nest of transphobia - but honestly it's not.

I feel very genuinely sympathetic to anyone who is struggling with gender dysphoria. It must be terrible feeling so utterly wretched and uncomfortable in your body. But that shouldn't - and can't - affect the sex-based rights of women and girls without gender dysphoria.

Aridane · 29/10/2019 09:05

And a packaging design on the plastic wrapper few have noticed is the hill to die on

Happyspud · 29/10/2019 09:43

I didn’t realise it was a ‘right’ to have the word woman or whatever on a package design😂

crankyassnoperope · 29/10/2019 09:59

I feel very genuinely sympathetic to anyone who is struggling with gender dysphoria. It must be terrible feeling so utterly wretched and uncomfortable in your body. But that shouldn't - and can't - affect the sex-based rights of women and girls without gender dysphoria.

It must be awful but that can't stop women and girls having a certain design on a plastic wrapper that none of them actually cared about in the first place?

Obviously not that sympathetic then.

Akire · 29/10/2019 10:23

It the sameness old problem, Transmen find a reference to woman or female body upsetting. So we will do all we can not to cause upset and change things. Which would be all well and good IF

Women find removing reference to women or female body upsetting, get told don’t be silly girls it’s only a word there are far bigger problems in the world get over yourselves.

Same with Transwomen find idea using male toilets with male bodies threaten, it’s ok use whatever toilet you like.

Women, I find using toilets with male bodies threaten, don’t be silly it’s not an issue get over yourself.

crankyassnoperope · 29/10/2019 10:35

Transmen find a reference to woman or female body upsetting. So we will do all we can not to cause upset and change things. Which would be all well and good IF

Women find removing reference to women or female body upsetting, get told don’t be silly girls it’s only a word there are far bigger problems in the world get over yourselves.

Well no, it's not really like that is it.

Trans people have gender dysphoria, a medically recognised and inalienable discomfort - a profound discomfort - with being associated with one gender or another.

Women who get upset about a bit of plastic not being pink or not having "for women" written all over them is not the same thing, not even a little bit! It's absolutely the strangest, most ignorant thing I've ever heard that you think the two are comparable Confused

SoupDragon · 29/10/2019 10:42

I don't give a shit about the sign. I do give a shit that they've changed it on the basis of a handful of complaints whereas they ignore all the complaints about the godawful stench.

Bodyform are far superior to Always though so one good thing came out of the stink for me.

crankyassnoperope · 29/10/2019 10:44

I don't give a shit about the sign. I do give a shit that they've changed it on the basis of a handful of complaints whereas they ignore all the complaints about the godawful stench.

But Always do scented AND unscented liners Confused

always.com/en-us/search?term=unscented

Akire · 29/10/2019 10:48

*Trans people have gender dysphoria, a medically recognised and inalienable discomfort - a profound discomfort - with being associated with one gender or another.

Women who get upset about a bit of plastic not being pink or not having "for women" written all over them is not the same thing, not even a little bit! It's absolutely the strangest, most ignorant thing I've ever heard that you think the two are comparable confused*

So you are saying that a profoundly deep mental health issue will be solved by removing a word or symbol?

WotchaTalkinBoutWillis · 29/10/2019 10:48

@TriJo I can honestly say that I have never given a single fuck about the wrappers on my pads. There could have been middle fingers on it the whole time and I wouldn't have noticed

Same Grin
All the years I've been using them I've never once noticed what symbols are on the wrappers lol

crankyassnoperope · 29/10/2019 10:49

So you are saying that a profoundly deep mental health issue will be solved by removing a word or symbol?

Surely you don't think that's what I'm saying? Are you on glue??

PeterRouseTheFleshofMankind · 29/10/2019 10:52

Trans people have gender dysphoria, a medically recognised and inalienable discomfort - a profound discomfort - with being associated with one gender or another.

Um, I'm pretty sure what you just said is classed as 'transphobic' these days.

SoupDragon · 29/10/2019 10:54

Trans people have gender dysphoria, a medically recognised and inalienable discomfort - a profound discomfort - with being associated with one gender or another.

So why would they still be having periods?

CoffeeorBust · 29/10/2019 10:55

It matters to me. I'm a women i try and live my life within the mysogony, male violence. I get told to not to be too sensitive if i complain. If i sit on public transport and a man opens his legs as far as possible. Im the problem if i complain. The way i see it is we are biological female male or hermaphrodite. That is our sex. If you were buried a 1000yrs and dug up that's what the dna would say. If you have dysmorhia and have surgery to change to your chosen gender then you should be respected as your sex. But before surgery and no self I'd.

I can't see any relation to what you have said to the packaging of sanitary products.

I have never noticed the venus symbol on my period towels. I don't care.

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