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To find out who snitched on me?

146 replies

Mitzicoco · 19/09/2019 20:23

So I went to pick the kids up from school today. I was quite early well actually 20 minutes early so had a quick kip in the car. I was awoken by the deputy headmaster who wanted to speak to me so I went with him to his office and he said that there were some safeguarding issues regarding my children. To cut a long story short whereby my nanny got involved in all of this by being there and my children getting confused on what day she was there, somebody reported me on Monday or Tuesday of smelling of alcohol. I have not drunk anything at all. I am meeting the headmaster tomorrow to discuss this as a safeguarding issue. Am I being unreasonable in wanting to find the fuck out who reported me? And then giving them a piece of my mind?! I would never ever drink anything at all if I was driving. I cannot Think why somebody reported me. Were they being malicious? Nosy? Bored? Do they realise the impact this has on me? I am seriously pissed off.

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familycourtq · 19/09/2019 20:25
Hmm
Wildorchidz · 19/09/2019 20:25

🤔

Chocolatehat · 19/09/2019 20:29

No one told on you if you did nothing wrong.

BoneyBackJefferson · 19/09/2019 20:36

Mitzicoco

How do you think it will look if you do "give them a piece of your mind"?

LionKingLover · 19/09/2019 20:38

This is strange. Anyone who holds a grudge or another parent who has form for lying and causing drama?

FractalChaos · 19/09/2019 20:38

Explain the nanny bit? I am confused!

WarshipWarrior · 19/09/2019 20:40

Your post make absolutely no sense

AgesAndAges · 19/09/2019 20:40

Am I the only one who can't figure out what happened? What exactly happened, and what has the nanny got to do with it???

PurpleDaisies · 19/09/2019 20:40

I’m confused how the nanny is involved.

mypuddin · 19/09/2019 20:42

Are you drunk now?!

Gruzinkerbell1 · 19/09/2019 20:43

I think we need the long version of the story, because the short version makes zero sense.

LucyAutumn · 19/09/2019 20:43

I'm a little confused too Confused

lostfrequencies · 19/09/2019 20:44

Eh

Tilltheendoftheline · 19/09/2019 20:46

Are you sure you arent drinking now?

Igetknockeddownbutgetupagain · 19/09/2019 20:46

The deputy head waking you up from a sleep must have helped your case no end Confused

familycourtq · 19/09/2019 20:46

Am I being unreasonable in wanting to find the fuck out who reported me? And then giving them a piece of my mind?

Probably - if any of this highly confusing collection of randomness ever actually even happened.

newtothebabygame · 19/09/2019 20:47

You're not sober right now are you??

B00kworm86 · 19/09/2019 20:47

Pardon?

whogoncheckmeBoo · 19/09/2019 20:47

You were taking an opportunity to nap in your car? Oh dear that played right into their hands didn’t it.

OwnerofanAngryCat · 19/09/2019 20:48

Are you telling us about a dream.you had?

hesatwunt · 19/09/2019 20:49

Yes those are indeed words

tuberr0se · 19/09/2019 20:50

No, not drunk! Sorry, was obviously not clear in last post. Really, the nanny has nothing to do with it it, as, when questioned, one of my kids got her days confused, and it wasn't her who was accused of smelling of alcohol. It was me. Am just livid that someone would accuse me of that when I absolutely never drink and drive, and also that they didn't ask me first. It makes me think (probably paranoid, though maybe not) that a group of mums are talking about me behind my back. And I haven't done anything!!!!

PurpleDaisies · 19/09/2019 20:51

tuberr0se are you the op?

imaflutteringkite · 19/09/2019 20:52

So you weren't drunk. Surely you just say "They are mistaken, I hadn't had a drink". Then that's the end of that? Although the whole thing is very confusing.

Morgan12 · 19/09/2019 20:53

😂

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