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Bridesmaid posted a photo of my dress on Facebook

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Titsntats · 15/06/2019 07:21

I know I probably am but just wanted to hear others opinions on whether they would be sad about it or if I just need to get a grip!

Getting married soon and after trying on a lot of different dresses I finally found the one, something I never thought I would due to being very body conscious and anxious. Went back for final fitting at the weekend and took one of my bridesmaids as she wanted to see

After finishing the appointment and getting home I saw that she had posted a photo of me in the dress on Facebook (during the appointment so it had already been on an hour or two when I saw it) and tagged my partner in it saying she bets he couldn’t wait to marry me and how lovely my dress is. When I asked her to remove it her response was ‘it doesn’t matter if he’s seen it he’s a man so he will have forgotten what it looks like in 5 minutes time’. My dad had also seen it as well and it was going to be a surprise for him on the day too

I just don’t know what to do or how to feel! I am so gutted that it now won’t be a surprise to my partner or my dad. She knew how much that meant to me and the only thing I had asked for was that details of how I will look on the day were kept a surprise from my dad and partner. As I paid in instalments the dress is now fully paid for and I don’t have time to get another one and do all the alterations etc. Someone tell me I will stop feeling like this soon!

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Charley34 · 11/10/2019 19:44

Are you the ex bridesmaid user133.......😉😂

Span1elsRock · 11/10/2019 19:49

Glad your day went well OP.

There are just some lines that you don't cross and your so called friend went so far over that line that there never really was going to be a way back.

No one needs people like that in their lives.

Bellendejour · 11/10/2019 20:17

I just read through all 31 or whatever pages as I missed it first time round! (I feel very out of the loop Blush)

Congratulations on your wedding and congratulations for jettisoning this spiteful bitch out of your life via the world’s media! Grin

Wine Cake Star

ratsnest · 11/10/2019 20:32

I appreciate your update and I can't believe the time has flown so quickly!

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