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AIBU to think that straight people shouldn't be dictating who should be able to go to Pride?

173 replies

ArcheryAnnie · 03/06/2019 22:38

I'm a woman. I'm a mum. I'm also someone who has been an LGBT+ activist for most of her adult life. I used to go on Pride marches when it was a little bit scary to do so, when there was always a message at the end from the stage about being careful when you were going home and away from the safety of the gay-friendly crowd.

Susie Green, Mermaids CEO, is a straight woman. Which is fine! She is opposed to women declaring that lesbians don't have penises. Which is less fine, but eh, she's entitled to believe whatever daft things she wants. But - however many friends and relatives she has who fit under the LGBT+ banner - Pride isn't about her, or any other straight "allies".

And yet here she is, declaring that "We will only take part if we are satisfied that concerns have been addressed". This is because she is very keen to prevent lesbians who believe that lesbians don't have penises from participating in the Pride march.

Source: prideinlondon.org/news-and-views/a-pride-without-hate/

Susie, we don't give a shit whether you take part or not. We don't agree with you that women standing up for the validity of same-sex attraction, for female homosexuality, qualifies as "hate". We really don't care what you want to happen or don't want to happen at Pride. Pride was created by people like us, in times of great need, and you don't get to dictate what we will or won't do. This isn't for you.

AIBU to think Susie Green and others like her should stay in their lane?

OP posts:
HiItsClemFandango · 03/06/2019 22:39

YANBU

thegreatcrestednewt · 03/06/2019 22:40

Yanbu

ChiefClerkDrumknott · 03/06/2019 22:41

YANBU

TitianaTitsling · 03/06/2019 22:41

YANBU!

newtlover · 03/06/2019 22:42

YANBU at all

TurboTeddy · 03/06/2019 22:45

YANBU the cotton ceiling is truly appalling.

Etino · 03/06/2019 22:46

Yanbu

Redshoeblueshoe · 03/06/2019 22:47

Yanbu

HalloumiGus · 03/06/2019 22:48

YANBU.

Terfnserf · 03/06/2019 22:49

YANBU, stone wall now run by heterosexuals

AngeloMysterioso · 03/06/2019 22:50

I have long since been of the opinion that it’s time to separate the T from LGB.

MenstruatorExtraordinaire · 03/06/2019 22:50

YANBU solidarity with my lesbian sisters 💜

Teddybear45 · 03/06/2019 22:51

I wonder if she’d date a a man with a vagina - probably not right?

hibbledibble · 03/06/2019 22:52

The article you linked to doesn't match with your op. She is only asking that pride is a trans inclusive environment. Nothing wrong with that.

NottonightJosepheen · 03/06/2019 22:54

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ILoveMaxiBondi · 03/06/2019 22:55

YAdefinitelyNBU!!!

Who the hell does SG think she is?

MenstruatorExtraordinaire · 03/06/2019 22:55

I agree the T does not belong with LGB

MogMogMog · 03/06/2019 22:55

YANBU!

ILoveMaxiBondi · 03/06/2019 23:01

In everything we do we are working to ensure the Trans community are front and centre.

Odd. It’s called the LGBT community. Not the T community.

50 years since the Stonewall uprising we must remember who started our movement and mark their importance.

In fucking deed you must!

CarolDanvers · 03/06/2019 23:05

YANBU.

TurboTeddy · 03/06/2019 23:09

In fucking deed you must!

Storme DeLaverie

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 03/06/2019 23:11

Someone with a god complex indeed

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 03/06/2019 23:13

Yanbu....from a straight ally since 1995 and the daughter of a gay woman.

ContessaIsOnADietDammit · 03/06/2019 23:15

It does feel like LGB people have been pushed right to the back of the priorities list - particularly the L. I was thinking about this while driving today and I can't for the life of me see how trans ideology can coexist with homosexuality. I mean, the clue is in the name - homosexuality. Not homogenderality. Although I now desperately want/don't want to Google and see if that's a thing Confused

ContessaIsOnADietDammit · 03/06/2019 23:17

Oh Lord. It is a thing.

I'm too depressed to link.