to not expect to my dp to come home steaming drunk with my ds (4) from his nursery presentation day??????

[Jazzicatz]

Well am I??????

Being a bit tispy is one thing dp can hardly stand up and he weighs 18 stone, so god knows how much he has had!!!!!!!!!!

did you speak to the nursery Jazzy, I presume you have given that you know they offered DP a lift home??

did they give any explanation as to why wine was served??

you utterly miseablse sods
this is so englishad nd uptight
no alcohol at thignswere kdisds are ??
get real

did he have a drink before going to the nursery perhaps??

highly likely
cant imagine you can ever get DRUnk at a nursery do
wehave summer bbqs and stuff int eh early evenings

and speaking as someone who was in court TODAY for someone who was drunk in charge of ac hild.....

( wellnot me obv was very sober)

That's awful!!! I'd be furious - with both. Remind me never to let dp attend nursery events when dd is older without responsible adult supervision.

What are you going to do, Jazzicatz?

oh she will complain that nursery MADE Him drunk of course

It's not a wedding though cod, it's a nursery ffs

Is he pulling your leg?
Maybe he spent the afternoon in the pub taking DS wit him.
Feel free to ignore me I am piddled and my in laws are downstairs and I am up here escaping them. Hahaha!

it not having no alcohol where there are kids cod, its just that if her DP is incharge of getting himself home and his child he has no right to get that drunk her is now sleeping it off.

It isnt that we are uptight and english at all.

So you would be ok with your DH coming home in a drunken state with your DS in tow??

I will happily have a drink at home with friends and children around but will always make sure that others can get home safely or they stay over.

It may not be against the law, i dont know the law as well as some, but i think it is irresponsible. Who would be to blame if something had happend to Jazz'z DS??

Cod I didn't say no alcohol at things where kids are

I said no alcohol at an event that is FOR children

would you take a beer into a soft play place (would ruddy improve things, but still)? Would you expect a teacher to be having a glass of wine at lunchtime?

This event was presumably to celebrate the children's academic achievements? And someone thought it would be a good idea if the parents all drank while this was happening? Fab.

not necc maybe ti was a prents do

Our school serves alcohol at its summer events - usually 4-7 is typical. But they are whole school events not just one year one offs, iyswim

Raises money for the school - but there is always plenty of food available. Barbecue, loads of international dishes etc.

i think dh would haev to drink an awful lto not to be able to walk a kid home
btu then maybe JCs dh is a boozzer

a nursery do? gosh, didn't think nurseries did this kind of thing. I'm not agaisnt serving alcohol when children are around, but honestly I've never seen anyone getting drunk when in sole charge of a child and driving !

it was a nursery presentation, that would be for the children??

Jazzi is this really out of character for dp? I mean, do you think something weird has gone on here?

Dp was once very tired and stressed and got paralytic drunk on ONE can of beer. There was no explanation for it and the doctor didn't even believe us but I sat there and watched it happen.

I am SO not uptight and English

You can talk, you're a magistrate

There is no way they should have let your dp leave with ds. I can't believe they did it. I would give them a rocket up their arse jazzi.

Children and alcohol just don't mix....Schweppes much better...

No, it's absurd. Yes, we are adults...which means we should be able to enjoy a nursery do without booze....it's such an invitation to do the sort of thing this bloke has...

I am English and I am uptight about alcohol and I don't give a shit

this is just CRAP, it's not ok

lol i think jcs dh had stoped off elsewhre
maybe he hid hid runkeness?

what are they supposed to do?
do a huge " J'accuse" int eh nursery hallways and then strip him of his dad eppaulettes?

Cod, they are not legally allowed to release a child in the care of a drunk adult

you seem to think I am making this up