AIBU to think young children can manage fine with their mother away Mon-Fri?

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Just interested in opinions/experiences of this

Coyoacan this sums up exactly what I’ve been thinking recently. I had what can only be described as an idyllic childhood. And to be quite frank adulthood and the shitty things it brings has failed to measure up completely. And I don’t feel I’m that well equipped to deal with these things. Handled in the right way and with support from people that love them your kids will deal with this and will be stronger because of it. Use a child therapist or similar if you need tips on helping them deal. I’m sorry that you and your kids are in this position but you clearly love them and are doing your best to get well for them. Big hugs and well wishes to you

The very fact that you are unwell will have an impact on them, you are doing your best no doubt. Their dad is a loving parent?

I know of mothers who are out at work all day, then scoot home, change for gym, out until 9 pm ish when child is in bed being cared for by either GPs or parent. Mothers don't really see offspring all that much really even at weekends - gyms are open then to! It's what the children are used to but can't say if they miss mother or not . What you have never had you don't miss so they say

@changeznamez - aww...you are very kind - made me cry!

@EleanorReally - yes, their Dad loves them to bits and would do anything for them.
@Gohardorgohome - thank you.

I am really sorry to hear you are in such a difficult predicament. I understand your reasoning for posting limited information initially, but it did seem really hard to give a realistic view without a bit more context. And yes, the context does make a huge difference.
Interesting to note all those ready to pass judgement based on virtually no facts though, unfortunately a very common mindset.

In this situation there is nothing more you can do.
They will understand and they will get through it.
I hope your treatment goes well and is successful.

Thank you very much