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Dh wants me to quit work

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anxiousmotherof1 · 13/01/2019 10:50

Long story short started work in november after a year of maternity leave .
DS is in nursery full time . Since he started he has been getting sick literally every week i have already used alot of my annual leave
Just before xmas he got very ill and had to be in iv antibiotics . Then he got better and was fine while at home . As soon as he got back to nursery he got sick again only lasted 4 days . Doctor gave antibiotics again as he is wheezing

Dh thinks that he is not meant for nursery and that it would be better if i stayed home with him full time . Am not sure what to think i dont think i ll be comfortable not having any earnings but on the other hand i cannot keep going on like this ! I knew he would be getting sick but not this often .
We keep fighting about my job . Do you think is normal to get sick so often ? Thinking of changing him to another nursery that has an outstanding rating but i dont really think it will make a difference

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birdonawire1 · 28/04/2019 12:40

Kids get sick when they start nursery and it is relentless, but if they miss nursery they'll be just the same when they start school, so maybe just give it a little more time. When little kids get colds etc it knocks their immunity and they pick up even more, so it'll happen anyway.

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