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Fucking bitches

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LindaLa · 30/12/2018 11:39

Up until very recently (last night), I had a group of 4 very close friends.

I recently had an upset of a childhood (sexual) trauma that I've told no one about. One of my friends was here when this happened and I opened up to her, she was supportive and i felt great, lighter.

Last night we all meet for drinks and exchange gifts. We all exchange various supermarket vouchers and have done since our "babies" were babies.

She makes a comment about a paedofile arrest made near her and then says "surprised you don't know him Linda, you were paedofile fodder"
Other people laugh and start questioning me about what happened.

She has told them everything.

I being questioned in a bar. A crowded bar.

I have grabbed my things and left.

Took their things out of my car and left them on the kerb.
I have blocked them. Everywhere.

I have been to supermarkets and spent all the vouchers, put it all in the food bank.

Fuck them.

OP posts:
ASAS · 30/12/2018 11:41

Yes. Fuck them.

Xxx

MummytoCSJH · 30/12/2018 11:41

I am so sorry she betrayed your trust :(

Dancer12345 · 30/12/2018 11:41

That’s awful. So sorry to hear you’ve been through this. Nasty people who you’re better off without. I can’t imagine betraying someone’s confidence over such a serious issue, and then to joke about it in a bar? Terrible.

squaksquak · 30/12/2018 11:41

Oh my god. That is awful!!

Are you ok?

2019already · 30/12/2018 11:42

OP, that is so dreadful, I can’t even imagine how you must be feeling. I wouldn’t speak to them again either, they sound dreadful. Sending love Flowers

Angelicinnocent · 30/12/2018 11:43

I'm so sorry for you that this happened in the first place and then your supposed friends behaved this way.

You've done the right thing putting such toxic people out of your life. Take some time to calm yourself and then go forward knowing that you are strong and a survivor.

Allthewaves · 30/12/2018 11:43

Wow. I'm speechless. 'Paedophile fodder' wtf

Tartsamazeballs · 30/12/2018 11:43

That's horrendous you poor thing x

Letsmoveondude · 30/12/2018 11:43

Paedophile fodder? Such a disgusting term.

Yes fucking bitches, indeed

MrsGriff8 · 30/12/2018 11:43

That's awful, I'm so sorry OP Flowers

Sounds like you've known them a long time too which makes it worse. You've done right, friends don't do that and you don't need that in your life!

GreenMeerkat · 30/12/2018 11:43

Holy shit that's awful!!

Dinnerfor1 · 30/12/2018 11:44

I’m so sorry that your friend betrayed your trust. I can’t understand why she would do that to you. I hope you’re ok.

Hoppinggreen · 30/12/2018 11:44

I’m so sorry OP, that is absolutely awful and I think you’ve reacted very well
Continue to block the lot of the cow bags ( never use the C word but they are)
Take care of yourself x

MinisterforCheekyFuckery · 30/12/2018 11:44

Flowers for you.

You are better off without them.

Thehop · 30/12/2018 11:44

Astarding cow bitches. I’m so so sorry xxx

silkpyjamasallday · 30/12/2018 11:45

Oh OP I'm so sorry, what they did was indefensible. Have you had any therapy regarding what happened to you? Now might be the time to think about talking to a professional about it, as well as this betrayal by your 'friends', unfortunately with things as serious as sexual abuse it's difficult to find friends who can offer the support needed if they don't understand. Flowers

HomerDancing · 30/12/2018 11:45

That is appalling! She is a terrible person ! Who says or thinks such things

planespotting · 30/12/2018 11:45

ShockShockShock
Horrible people!!!
Better off OP 💙

Stardustinmyeyes · 30/12/2018 11:45

Definitely fucking bitches, good for you to spend all the vouchers and great to give food to food bank.
I’m so sorry that your friend betrayed you and I hope you’re ok.
Well done for blocking them

Goldenphoenix · 30/12/2018 11:45

They are awful, well done for cutting them out of your life.
Please do talk to someone professional about what happened to you, you shouldn't have to face it by yourself. Hope this experience doesn't put you off about opening up to others, most people are not like those thoughtless cows xx

JeffJarrett · 30/12/2018 11:46

Oh my goodness. That is horrific. I'm so sorry they did that to you Thanksthey are clearly a bunch of cunts and you're better off without people like this in your life.

Merryoldgoat · 30/12/2018 11:48

I am truly rarely speechless but this has rendered me so.

I’m so sorry you had such awful things happen to you, but what strength you have now to deal with this so well.

They’re utterly fucking awful.

Myglassesareknackered · 30/12/2018 11:48

How utterly hideous. What nasty people.
Sending Flowers

KC225 · 30/12/2018 11:49

That is so bad. Who would say that? So sorry OP. You are right to block them. No friends would treat you like that.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 30/12/2018 11:49

She's a cunt of the highest order. They're all cunts for asking you such intrusive upsetting questions. A lot more sensitivity and tact theyd be a bunch of narcissists.
Not only is it immoral what she's done is not also illegal. I though victim's of sexual abuse/assault rape ect had the legal right to anonymity.

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