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Worst insult from your partner?

208 replies

moumoute · 15/12/2018 16:58

Not sure that thread will survive

OP posts:
adultchildofalcoholicparents · 19/12/2018 23:55

Did you feel it instinctively beforehand to was it the photos you saw?

From several comments he made before it came out, it didn't seem consistent or plausible. He 'rescued' her because she was vulnerable because she'd been cheated on and her partner had made some choice comments about her. So, I'd a rough idea that she was older and heavier than I am but no idea just how much.

It came as a shock to him when he saw the photographs.

I actually had to take the photographs and pass them round the table as he did such a rabbit in the headlights he couldn't either pass them or move his head.

There was this particular shot of the morning she'd tried to manoeuvre them into being caught together in her room. The people who were due to be there at the time when he'd have been caught were running late. However, the photographs they took, the way that her hair had been messed up - I knew exactly what had just happened because it was something that he did.

One of the weirdest experiences of my life.

I know that a few people at that table knew because they were there. To this day, I wonder if they just couldn't think of a way to get out of passing round the photographs or just didn't care.

Dimsumlosesum · 21/12/2018 11:03

"Wow, there was nothing of you then!!", said with utter amazement/delight/lust in his eyes, when finding a photo of me at 16 and UK size 10. Fuck you.

Dimsumlosesum · 21/12/2018 11:04

Also, "name five things you bring to this relationship. See? You can't even name one".

WatchThisThread · 21/12/2018 11:13

After he left me for another woman: "I couldn't have done this while your mother was alive. I couldn't have done it to her".

AND (after he came back and was on the point of leaving me (again) for (another) other woman): "You were my life's work"

We are now divorced.

arranbubonicplague · 21/12/2018 11:13

"name five things you bring to this relationship. See? You can't even name one".

Wow - I'm sure that if you'd picked the next 100 people walking by on the street, they'd all have known, without prompting just what that role model brought to a relationship. Hmm

Where do they get this self-image and entitlement from?

Thisnamechanger · 21/12/2018 11:15

"Not many men would have taken you on" Sad

Factually accurate but still upset me.

arranbubonicplague · 21/12/2018 11:18

"Not many men would have taken you on"

Did the great humanitarian feel short-changed in recognition of his altruism and philanthropy?

Thisnamechanger · 21/12/2018 11:24

Did the great humanitarian feel short-changed in recognition of his altruism and philanthropy?

Apparently! He was pretty down at the time due to my being a) a drug addict b) a piss artists and c) just been called out lying about a & b.

But still wouldn't have been better if he had kept it to himself rather than saying it out loud.

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