Boyfriend put videos of me on his social media ...aibu to be annoyed?

[harriet333]

Friday night I went out to my works Christmas party.
I got very drunk.
Got back and I was struggling to make it upstairs /being sick as I went into a bucket.
Woke up Saturday morning and he had snap chatted it all to his Snapchat.
Me lying on the stairs,a video of me being sick a video of me passed out in bed.
Aibu to be annoyed here?

Yanbu. Has he got form for trying to embarrass you?

Learn your limits 😄

Depending on your job it won’t look very good though...

Correction I’ve just read it was only Snapchat, in which case

That's extremely immature behaviour. It shows a disgusting lack of respect for you. Annoyed is a massive understatement to describe how I would feel if I was in your situation.

He snapchats everything
Drives me mad

YANBU. I couldn't trust him again. Surely he'd having been busy helping you and making sure you are ok not videoing you.

Tbf it’s there for 24 hours and I doubt he has any of your bosses on there.

If you don’t want evidence out there of you being a mess don’t get in a mess.

I was asking him to help me up the stairs and he was snap chatting me asking him.
Then snap chatted me this morning when I was in bed.

Yanbu I would be very pissed off. These days people put everything on SM.
If someone gets hurt, people are filming before helping.
I think it is the younger generation, not all obviously, it is a weird way of life. I am glad I was past it.

All my workmates were as drunk thankfully and we work in a bar so it's ironic

I feel like an update is going to pop up that the OP was barely dressed if dressed at all...

But if that isn’t the case-you need to have s serious conversation with him about boundaries.

Snapchat him a video of you dumping him and send it to all his mates.

I'd be fuming, it's like he's trying to show you up deliberately

Nope fully clothed just looking like I had been dug up

I actually think it’s funny. Don’t act like a fool, problem solved.

Very embarrassed that over 90 people has seen me vomiting and crying on the stairs

Are you dating a 14 year old? I would be livid.

He is 36!!!!!

YANBU I wpuld be bloody raging! You have the right to a bit of privacy in your own home without your partner trying to embarrass you.

Snapchat him a video of you dumping him and send it to all his mates.

Love this idea

do you get drunk and throw up a lot?

What an arsehole

Don't act like a fool
Or the boyfriend could not be a twat by filming her in her own home (presumably) then posting it on social media without her consent or knowledge.

@harriet333 how old is he? Surely a grown adult doesn't use snap chat constantly?

He's definitely violated your privacy and embarrassed you! I suggest you start a snap chat story of him shitting in the morning or wandering around naked.😉😂

LTB

I never go out.
Last night was the first time in 11 months I've been out.