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Boyfriend put videos of me on his social media ...aibu to be annoyed?

128 replies

harriet333 · 09/12/2018 16:51

Friday night I went out to my works Christmas party.
I got very drunk.
Got back and I was struggling to make it upstairs /being sick as I went into a bucket.
Woke up Saturday morning and he had snap chatted it all to his Snapchat.
Me lying on the stairs,a video of me being sick a video of me passed out in bed.
Aibu to be annoyed here?

OP posts:
Downwiththatsortofthing252 · 10/12/2018 09:49

OP have you thought about what this means for your future? He doesn't listen to you (or others), he won't even stop when asked in public.

If you were to have kids together would you be happy with him putting their lives on SM? And he probably would ride roughshod over you in regards to many other issues because who cares about what you think/want, he will do what he wants to do.

I missed the warning signs with my boyfriend, and now we have kids together he doesn't listen to a word I say and I massively resent him. People don't become more reasonable as they get older, their behaviours/attitudes become more entrenched.

MulticolourMophead · 10/12/2018 10:12

OP, I have to agree with Downwiththatsortofthing252, you do need to consider the future.

And also you need to consider your friends. The ones at the meal may hesitate to go out with your BF again, which may affect your friendships.

Angrybird345 · 10/12/2018 10:53

He had t learnt his lesson, he doesn’t care. Don’t be an idiot and stay with him. He’s not lovely, he’s a loser.

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