Aibu to not want to show my sister our bedroom

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First house, a long time coming. We’ve now been in for a couple of months. My sister is coming over tomorrow. I don’t want to show her our bedroom (plus shower room). Now that it’s been lived in for a bit it feels like dh and my private space.

It’s not anything to do with not trusting her or whatever but I just don’t want anyone but me and dh in there. Aibu?

If not how do I tell her ‘it feels too private to let you in’.

It’s your decision but it’s a bit odd.

That's quite a strange attitude, YABU for that. Are you pregnant and having a hormonal nesting thing going on?

Regardless, if you don't want to show someone rooms in your house then you don't have to, perhaps just say it's too messy or something.

I could u derstand it if she was just a neighbour, but your sister? Really? I doubt that the main thing she will be thinking is that this isn't where my sister and her OH do their shagging 😂😂😂

If you don’t show her she’s only going to imagine it’s a porn dungeon with a sex swing

Slightly odd really but I would just say it's a mess really and leave it at that if you don't want to show her. How unusual is the bedroom?

Rather bizarre

Sorry, but you are being a bit precious.

That is very odd

If you’re happy for rumours to emerge that you’ve converted it into a sex dungeon, crack on.

If you don't want to, you don't have to. Although given that it is your sister, I think it is a bit odd.
Fwiw, I had several friends ask if they could have a tour when I moved in to my new home, and they were always very put out when I refused. I don't like people going upstairs!

Why not? I am not at all territorial about space though.

I get you op. I don't like other people being in my bedroom - and no shagging has ever gone on there as I moved here when I left my ex. It's my space.

I don't think YABU.

I’d think it’s really weird tbh. It’s your sister...

weird

Weird?

Do you think she's going to copy it?

I kind of know what you mean - a friend was showing me around her newly decorated house, and when we got to her and her husbands bedroom, I had a moment of "Eek, I feel a bit weird about being in your private space".

Yeah, sorry, odd. But then my sister sleeps in our bed (with fresh sheets ofc) when she cat sits as it’s comfort than the spare.

I don't think you're being unreasonable but you're definitely being a bit odd

*more comfortable

Weird at a whole new level of weird. Also attention seeking.

It's not a sex dungeon.

Yes it’s odd.

She's only going to peek round the door and go 'oh, very nice' then head to the kitchen for a coffee, surely?