Would you fancy you OH if you met him now?

[LolaPickle]

When we first met - ten years ago ,my husband looked and acted VERY different, he was up for a laugh, looked very very different and was much more outgoing. Now he is the opposite of what i would find attractive and is very different socially / takes life very seriously

Would you still fancy you OH if you met him today?

Yes because even though he can be super work focused and a general pain it’s still the person who supported me through the hell of a lot of growing up I had to do.

Without a doubt, if anything his got hotter over the years

Yes. He’s barely changed in 13 years. I, on the other hand... not so hot

Absolutely! I jump him every evening. He’s hot as hell.

Yes! I actually think he looks better now he has aged a few years.

definitely, think I fancy him more every day tbh 😳😳

Yes, probably more so actually.

He's gained so much more confidence and self assurance after being left deflated and ground down from a previous relationship.

Ten years is a long time, and people do change. Where do you see this relationship in another ten years time?

Absolutely! He just gets better with age... he does take care of himself though, still slim but with that sexy silver fox thing going on... hot as 😋

hell yeah!

Has he turned into a miserable bastard? It’s a risk with all of them. If you’re lucky he can still be turned. The onset seems to occur around late 30s, on average.

When you say “the opposite of what you would find attractive” do you mean he has got a bit porky? Can you get him to join a cycling club or something? Then he will meet and make friends with some more cheerful men and it will prevent some of the miserable git tendencies.

Are his old mates miserable bastards? All the more reason to encourage him to extend his social circle. I speak from knowledge.

My husband looks better now than when we met (he’s conceded that he’s losing his hair and has adapted his hairstyle accordingly, plus I now tell him what to wear haha) but I have had to put the graft into turning him away from the path of middle aged male despair. I am the cheerful one and bloody hell it’s exhausting sometimes.

lol at silver fox

My DH is a solver fox :)

Been with mine coming up to two years. Met him at 25 and he's now 27, I think he's changed a lot and looks older since we met and I fancy him all the more for it.

Absolutely. Like lemon while he doesn’t look that different his approach to life has changed loads and he’s even more attractive happier, lighter, more fun and adventurous.

silver fox - got excited as I was typing

Definitely fancy him more today than 30 years ago when I first met him, when he wakes I am going to ask him this question as I can’t see him giving me the same answer

Yes. I’m not sure what it is I find attractive about him but there’s something that still gives me the fanny gallops after 17 years.

Yes I think my DH is more attractive now than he was when we met 10 years ago. He has started getting grey hairs recently and he's self conscious about it but I really like them

No. Not one bit.

Yes. He's just as lovely and I think is sexy and handsome . Works for me.

Definitely not.

I actually started a thread similar to this a few years back and it was so lovely. People saying nice things about their husbands for a change, rather than all the sad depressing stuff we read everyday.

Yep - six years later and he's looking a bit more haggard, but still hot. And I can say that because I'm twice as haggard as he is!

Yes, everything that attracted me is still going strong. He's better looking now really and has the same personality.

Yep, even more after 8 years now he's a bit more grizzled with a few greys. He's still gorgeous.

My husband is more handsome, kind and loving today as he was when I first met him in 1961!