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To think Mumsnet don’t approve of any dog?

218 replies

dogzdogz · 16/08/2018 20:51

Every time someone asks about a breed, people criticise it. Apart from retired greyhounds.

AIBU to wonder if the perfect breed does actually exist?

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Bananarama12 · 18/08/2018 06:26

fieryginger yes absolutely they all have the ability to snap. Every single dog has it limits. That's why you teach children to respect animals and the space that they need.

Panicmode1 · 18/08/2018 06:27

Another vote for the GR. I'm horrified by how much some friends seem to have paid for their "poos" but it's their money, and not my business! We didn't want a rescue as I have four children and wanted a 'safe' family breed, from a reputable breeder.

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Theimpossiblegirl · 18/08/2018 06:28

I love my dog, he is one of the family and absolutely adorable.
But I don't let him run loose in parks or any other the other issues mentioned. I'm considerate and careful.

Jeippinghmip · 18/08/2018 06:28

Rescue dogs, retired greyhounds good! Staffordshire Bull Terriers, Doodles bad!

We have a gorgeous Labradoodle! Ignore the self opinionated twats.

BanananananaDaiquiri · 18/08/2018 06:28

I think if rescues were more pragmatic then it would make more of a dent in puppy farming, and therefore potentially result in fewer dogs ending up in rescue. I understand the need to avoid dogs bouncing back and forth between new homes and rescue, but some of the blanket rules that some impose are needlessly restrictive. Years ago we were turned down by one rescue because they had a policy of not rehoming to anyone in rented accommodation. This was despite the fact we were in a long term lease, had permission in writing from our LL and references from our vet.

The perfect home for every dog in rescue doesn't exist, but the "better than a life in kennels long term" ones are out there, so a bit more flexibility and judging each prospective home on its merits wouldn't go amiss. Yes, by all means still weed out the on a whim people and the completely clueless brigade, but if you get someone who has thought through a solution for a potential barrier, e.g. someone who works FT but has arranged that Family Member A will pop round in the morning, they themselves will come home at lunchtime and the dog walker will be in mid-afternoon, how is that worse than a life in a kennel with much less actual 1-on-1 human contact?

windysocks · 18/08/2018 07:34

YANBU mumsnetters do seem anti dog unless rescue. I have a doodle now and people in RL love to criticise I had a rescue for 15 years - lovely but challenging.

Whitney168 · 18/08/2018 09:32

Puppy farms do exist but not all crosses are farmed.

No, but a huge proportion of them are, along with a lot of the popular pedigree breeds like Miniature Schnauzers, Westies, Yorkies etc. Some puppy farms/commercial breeders are very difficult to spot, others virtually have neon signs stating it and yet people still ignore it.

Nearly every Cockapoo I've seen has been a delightful looking little creature, I absolutely see the appeal (although I do have to say a lot of them seem to be quite nervy). I have no more issue with them if they're bred well than any other dog.

I have two “flat faced things” lol 😂 They have a great life—hiking, exploring, eating/rolling in dead things.

I take them for full day hikes, sometimes 5+ hours of walking, a lot of that uphill. They’re both lean and muscled. Some of the issue with these dogs is people let them get overweight and unfit which hampers the breathing.

In this heatwave we've been having, I regularly see an owner in the mornings with a fat Labrador and a Pug that I reckon is at least 50% over what it should weight. It is all I can do not to ask the (very pleasant) owner if he's not ashamed of himself, and how he can bear to see it struggle so much.

my friend has just bought a jack Russell crossed with a pug I disapprove because it's a mongrel she has paid £350 for but she is surprisingly cute and not wheezy because her face is pointed not squashed

See, I really don't get this. Why on earth pay extra money for a cross of this nature, presumably just to say it's part Pug? It probably doesn't look remotely like one, bar maybe the colour, but still has the chance of inheriting some of the many defects that this breed can suffer from? Why not just get a nice Jack Russell instead?!

MonsteraDeliciosa · 18/08/2018 09:34

We didn't want a rescue as I have four children and wanted a 'safe' family breed, from a reputable breeder

This is exactly why we got our GR too.
Rescues wouldn't touch us with young children, even though we have big house in the country, huge walled garden, I'm a SAHM with time for long walks.
We researched the best breed for us and found a good breeder.

longwayoff · 18/08/2018 09:48

Puppy farms are disgusting and should be illegal.

Soubriquet · 18/08/2018 10:30

I agree rescues are too strict. I used to work in a rescue and the only policy they had a blanket rule was, no rehoming to pregnant women. Purely because many women were adopting the dogs whilst pregnant and then returning them when the baby was born was it was "too much hard work".

The rest of the dogs were homed with the dogs needs in mind. So they would rehome with children to a full time working home if that dog was suited to it.

My preferred breed (chihuahua), will never be rehomed to me. The majority refuse to rehome them to homes with children under 10 as chihuahuas are not suitable for children.

Yet these two I've got are perfect with the kids. They love them to bits.

Jeippinghmip · 18/08/2018 13:46

All dogs have their ancestry in wolves. People have bred them over the years, for desirable characteristics. That same thing is still happening with cross-breeds.

DelBoysCrombieCoat · 18/08/2018 14:19

My rott is perfect ❤️ At 8 weeks and 11 months. Big and very hairy, intelligent, sweet natured, loyal, obedient, loves kids but couldn’t eat a whole oneWink
All dogs are lovely whether they are cross bred, mongrels, pure bred or designer bred.

TillyTadpole · 18/08/2018 15:34

Ah Delboy I couldn't agree more 😊

Here's my two after a play session with their bestie friend.... 8 stone 9 month old Rottie, Lexi, that they meet on their morning walk.

It's a shame that humans feel the need for prejudice. It doesn't happen in the Animal world.

Makes you wonder who are the animals tbh 🤷‍♀️

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longwayoff · 18/08/2018 15:48

Treeeeeat!Smile

Calledyoulastnightfromglasgow · 18/08/2018 16:28

Love these pictures!

So true Tilly.

ScribblyGum · 18/08/2018 16:55

My Lab. It does what is says on the tin.

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sonjadog · 18/08/2018 17:09

That's a great lab photo!

Nikephorus · 18/08/2018 17:50

Staffies all the way. Loves humans, totally adored by my cats (eldest cat likes to put his head in her mouth like a lion-tamer, she just sits there patiently), daft and loveable. Only downside - farts mustard gas on occasion Shock

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