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Wedding day....England are playing?????

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arghhhhhhh · 04/07/2018 15:11

Just been on fb and someone I know (though not well and I am nit invited to the wedding!) is getting married on Saturday. Obviously England are playing.

She has it a status on saying she has had multiple requests from guests wanting to know if the football will be shown.

Her status basically says she's angry at the messages she's had and under no circumstances will the football be shown. It's her wedding and the day is about that and that only. She's asked that no one checks their phones during the match and is even going to have a sign made for when people enter the venue as a reminder it's a football free zone.

Now she's had a fair few comments - a couple even say they wouldn't attend if they were invited due to her attitude.

What's everyone's opinions?

Me personally, I'd show it! I love football though, I've followed the World Cup through out and I'd be gutted if I couldn't watch it! I'd be making arrangements with the venue to make sure it's on.

The atmosphere would be amazing. I'd be jumping around with everyone else in my dress.....

Also a great way to break up the day. The day goes so fast for the bride and groom but the day guests....it can be such a long and tiring day. What a great way to break up the day!

Also, we are doing well, we haven't been in this situation where we may actually have a good chance of WINNING!!!! for years and probably never will again. The whole country is routing for them. Even people who don't like football are into it. I just don't think it's fair to expect people not to watch it, or not even check their phones!

Saying that....I do understand this lady's frustrations. She's been planning this wedding for over a year. I got married quite recently and know the stress etc of planning....but yeah, wouldn't make any difference to me. I'd be so excited for it to be shown!

Opinions? Is she being unreasonable? It's her and her partners day at the end of it.....I'd be worried my guests wouldn't show up though....

OP posts:
WhiteWood15 · 09/07/2018 13:10

I wouldn’t worry too much cos the game is on Sunday

FallenSky · 09/07/2018 13:25

Englands next match is Wednesday @WhiteWood15

arghhhhhhh · 09/07/2018 13:29

@WhiteWood15 next match is actually Wednesday......the final is on Sunday

OP posts:
purplelass · 09/07/2018 13:38

I associate English football fans with fat bellies and tattoos

I follow English football
I have tattoos
I have a fat belly

What would you like to assume about me?

ReanimatedSGB · 09/07/2018 15:36

Somehow I can't see everyone being constantly pestered to pay attention to the women's football world cup. It would be an absolute first to have a women's sport absolutely plastered over everything, with so many people boring on about it, and getting stroppy with anyone who finds it uninteresting, for weeks on end.

I can't think of anything that is done or enjoyed by women that gets as much attention as men's football does.

WhiteWood15 · 09/07/2018 15:42

And the wedding is Saturday? So no big deal surely

WhiteWood15 · 09/07/2018 15:48

Oh I see, his has been rumbling on since last weekend

Lweji · 09/07/2018 16:10

I can't think of anything that is done or enjoyed by women that gets as much attention as men's football does.

My first thought would be... weddings?

likeacrow · 09/07/2018 16:31

Lweji

Don't weddings usually involve two people, one of whom is often a man?

Lweji · 09/07/2018 17:02

Don't weddings usually involve two people, one of whom is often a man?

According to this thread, apparently not. Grin It's ALL about the bride.

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