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...to think it's rude of teachers at end of term declaring that they've earned their holiday/deserve a large glass of wine etc.....?

586 replies

Semisonic · 29/06/2018 23:46

Does it not imply that they think everyone's kids are little horrors and that it's such a hard job and we're not worthy?
Maybe all the kids are little horrors, maybe it is a hard job but they're getting paid for it. It was their choice! My job's hard too but I won't bang on about It.
I think it's quite insulting to the parents of the children. No? [hmmm]

OP posts:
MotheringMilly · 03/07/2018 11:24

I don’t know one parent that at some point doesn’t get stressed at least once through the day looking after their own kids. That’s with TV, tablets, toys, parks and whatever else we do to keep them entertained.

Now imagine a teacher with at least 25 kids, in a classroom and especially in this weather. Children of all abilities, so they must do separate plans for this.
There is nearly always one child with a recognizable learning difficulty, that can lead from mild disruption to a full-blown trashing of the classroom where the other pupils are evacuated from the classroom.

They perform a really important role in society and are most certainly underpaid and overworked. Imagine having that level of responsibility, not having one minute to yourself throughout the day, have to be accountable all the time, can’t even pee when you need one, scrutinized and observed
to an inch of your life, dealing with parents every liitle gripe, some warranted, most not!

Teaching is a real job, so is nursing, firefighting etc. The majority of people have BS jobs that don’t really do anything other than feed corporate greed, they may be in charge of big teams, work to deadlines, stressed etc but it’s not really important, is it!

Knowing a lot of teachers, I think they are brilliant, they aren’t looking for praise at all, don’t begrudge them time away from the school or that glass of wine.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 03/07/2018 11:25

I think @Semisonic is not coming back to this thread. Hopefully they have read it, and realised how unreasonable their OP was - if nothing else, on purely timetabling issues - ie. as all teachers get their long summer holiday at the same time, all of their 'Whoopee, it's the holidays!' comments are going to happen at the same time, whereas in other professions, they are scattered throughout the year - so teachers aren't saying it more, they are just saying it at the same time.

zonecheck · 03/07/2018 12:25

don't mind the wine so much, fair enough.

but see MNHQ's moronic thread about what gifts teachers want though.
FFS.

funinthesun18 · 03/07/2018 12:32

I actually told my child’s teacher yesterday, after handling my son’s challenging behaviour amazingly over the past year she deserves a break! (DS has suspected autism and he finds school very daunting but she has been so patient/understanding/motivated to make things easier for him etc...)

BlackBeltInChildWrangling · 03/07/2018 12:33

Yes, teachers are VU not wanting bags of potatoes, half drunk bottles of wine, and half eaten boxes of chocolates.

Down with the lot of them.

LondonJax · 03/07/2018 12:34

No, I'll happily chip in for the wine.

I used to help as a parent reader. Some of the kids I had (who are normally really polite, nice kids) became uncontrollable, basically pushing the limits because I wasn't a teacher and they thought they could get away with things. Nothing serious, jumping on teacher's swirly chair to have a spin round - which was fine until the child's reading partner decided to spin the chair for them at top speed when I turned my back to rearrange the chairs to keep them apart!

Or deciding they didn't want to read that book, they wanted something else (nope, not going to happen).

By the end of term I'd have bought the teacher a pub!

Can't see the problem in a teacher having a 'thank goodness it's the end of term' moment.

BlackBeltInChildWrangling · 03/07/2018 12:36

It seems that what teachers want, what they really, really want, is...

A little note of thanks from the DCs, parents or to the Head.

The greed! The cheek! How rude they are!

Dee61 · 23/07/2018 11:33

I have friends that are teachers and my son's girlfriend is one.
The hours they put in are amazing.
My son's girlfriend is up til 11 some nights marking. She goes in about 8 after dropping her child at parents. Gets home about 6, gives her daughter tea and bath and time. by 8.30 she is marking and doing her lesson planning for the next day.
Yes they definitely need their breaks !

Leahrad · 03/08/2018 22:04

Hey everyone! My first post on hereSmile

Looking for some advice on Hyperemesis gravidarum, what to eat what to avoid. This is my 2nd pregnancy but my first experience with HG. Thanks in advance x

catherinedevalois · 03/08/2018 23:17

Hi Leah! Do you want to start a thread in the Pregnancy section with your question? This thread is about teachers holidays so you probably won't get many sensible answers Wink

SirHubzALot · 04/08/2018 15:38

Nope - we're all drunk as skunks after drinking all that hard earned wine!

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