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Pregnant with (extremely) new partner. Fuck.

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Llamaface123 · 16/05/2018 22:28

DH left 2 years ago. Have rebuilt my life with DS (6) and he sees him a few times a week.
I started seeing someone late December. He is a friend of a friend and she set us up.
It's been wonderful. He is lovely and has made it clear that he sees us having a future together.
I have been feeling sick for a couple of days and my breasts are very tender. Yes, you guessed it...im pregnant.
We are incredibly careful so I don't know what has happened. We have never-and I mean never-had sex without a condom.
I don't know what to do. DS has no idea that this guy is even part of my life (I only see him when DS is at his dad's). Im in a complete muddle and I need to know if I have more options than not having the baby. It's too soon/how would DS cope/ logistics.
The thing is I want the baby. I've been broody for a long time and while it's early days, I really do love my new partne, but are my hormones clouding rational judgement?
It's a bad idea, isn't it??
Fuck shit bollocks.

OP posts:
CaledonianQueen · 21/05/2018 22:01

Still thinking of you @Llamaface123 Flowers

I hope that you are ok x

Rattail · 21/05/2018 23:00

How did it go xx

ScottishFlipper · 01/06/2018 11:18

Any update @Llamaface123 ? Hope all is well?

ScottishFlipper · 01/06/2018 20:43

Annoying...

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