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Softzilla returns..... to soft play

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Unreasonableunreasonableness · 24/04/2018 19:57

Probably will be a boring thread as i mainly intend to continue just ignoring and refusing to be drawn in to any games but...

Guess where I went today? And who I bumped into there? (I really need to find another place to hang out with people! )
Well she was there when I turned up with party mum. We greeted her with a surprised slightly awkward 'oh... hi!' which she returned, but then sat at a different table.
Later in the afternoon when I'd got home she called and i picked up without thinking. She said she wanted to chat and make it so that we could start going to our usual group again - she seemed to be under the impression that I was no longer going. And asked if she could come over right then. I said no sorry as it was time for dinner/ bath/ bed etc for my dc. I also told her that I was still attending the group and that she didn't need to worry about attending, I joked that it's big enough for both of us..... and she put the phone down. I wondered if it was a mistake but she never called back if it was and I don't want to call her.

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MiddleClassProblem · 30/05/2018 20:18

Bloody hell

BlankTimes · 30/05/2018 20:23

She's definitely trying to lure you and your dd to this "party" that no-one else knows about, don't go whatever stunts she pulls.

Do update the Police and emphasise strongly that she is either trying to get you and your dd on your own which is unsettling, or she is trying to get you to leave your dd alone with her which is just beyond scary.

Unreasonableunreasonableness · 30/05/2018 20:26

He's calling me tomorrow anyway so I will just tell him then. Phone is on silent I'm just checking it every now and then so it's not bothering me.

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userinterface34 · 30/05/2018 20:33

Hasn’t she anyone to reason with her? A partner maybe? It’s just odd! I know it’s a bad idea but I’d have asked her why she was so obsessed when you’re clearly wanting her to back off!

PerfectlySymmetricalButtocks · 30/05/2018 20:39

You can't reason with batshit.

daffodillament · 30/05/2018 20:50

Sorry not read full thread.. as there's loads of it..but is this about the woman who expected you to pay for all the time after you treated her once to a meal after a kids party. She kept blowing hot and cold ?

MadMags · 30/05/2018 20:52

Does she known where you live?!

daffodillament · 30/05/2018 20:53

I'm getting muddled with another thread about about a conversation hogger ??

Laiste · 30/05/2018 20:55

blank - emphasise strongly that she is either trying to get you and your dd on your own which is unsettling, or she is trying to get you to leave your dd alone with her which is just beyond scary.

Yes i agree. Was going to say similar. This involving/using of OPs DD will not be looked on favorably by the police at.all.

MadMags · 30/05/2018 20:56

If you read it you'll catch up!

TheMonkeyMummy · 30/05/2018 20:56

Can you write one final message saying 'please leave me alone.'

She's on another planet!

Figgygal · 30/05/2018 20:57

I'd missed all these updates I can't believe she's still pursuing you and yes this whole party stuff is barmy

Mirrorwriting · 30/05/2018 20:58

daffodillament

Softzilla saw someone pay for op at soft play a few times. Softzilla decided OP is a freeloader (even though she did not know op had given cash/transferred money/reciprocated on another occasion). Softzilla then decided that to make it ‘fair’ op should pay for Softzilla’s soft play (wtf).

Op ignored.

Softzilla growled. Softzilla stared at op creepily and unblinkingly. Softzilla tried to get op alone.

Op ignored.

Softzilla has now left probably in the hundreds (total) of missed calls and one sided messages.

BlueEyedBengal · 30/05/2018 21:06

Please take care this women seriously is unhinged and seems to be getting more and more obsessed and angry. I suspect she wanted to isolate you and your l o or not even show up herself. Let it all out to the police as her behaviour is far from the norm. Just keep your wits about you as I think she will not listen to warnings.

Looneytune253 · 30/05/2018 21:06

@Mirrorwriting did softzilla see op get paid into soft play before? That’s not what I remember? Sz just randomly kept insisting that because op invited her that op should pay. Even though sz heavily hinted for an invite. Need to find the original thread. Unless I missed an update?

BlueEyedBengal · 30/05/2018 21:07

Please take care this women seriously is unhinged and seems to be getting more and more obsessed and angry. I suspect she wanted to isolate you and your l o or not even show up herself. Let it all out to the police as her behaviour is far from the norm. Just keep your wits about you as I think she will not listen to warnings.

Looneytune253 · 30/05/2018 21:07

@Mirrorwriting did softzilla see op get paid into soft play before? That’s not what I remember? Sz just randomly kept insisting that because op invited her that op should pay. Even though sz heavily hinted for an invite. Need to find the original thread. Unless I missed an update?

CoraPirbright · 30/05/2018 21:08

14 more missed calls??? So glad you are talking to the police again tomorrow.

BlueEyedBengal · 30/05/2018 21:09

Sorry repeat post as I phone and me not getting along

BlueEyedBengal · 30/05/2018 21:09

Sorry repeat post as I phone and me not getting along

Mummyontherocks · 30/05/2018 21:10

Can you ask the friend who is slightly related if she has form for doing this in the past?

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