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Moustache shadow .. with photo :-(

258 replies

Glitterzzz · 15/03/2018 09:21

I know this might not sound a big problem to a lot of people but I have a constant female moustache shadows on my upper lips. I don’t even have a problem with hair it’s juts this constant blue/ grey tinge that has got worse and worse over the last couple of years.

I don’t smoke I’m not on birth control and don’t have any hormone issues I’m aware of. I’ve tried home remedies, chemical peels and led light treatments, vitimans and every expensive covering foundation on the market from £6 to £45 and nothing hides it.

I’m so so self conscious of it now. I’m not making eye contact with people even walking to my car all I can think is of the shadow. I see people staring at the area also.. when I cover it I use peach/ red liostick then concealer and then foundation and it still is there ...

I’m getting desperate. My partner hasn’t said a word but I seem him looking at it almost in shock .. I didn’t have this a couple years ago when we met. I’m so sick of hiding my face with my hands, not having confidence to even look people I know in the face.. and worst all I cannot even cover it and go about my day... please help! Does anyone have this problem ? Could my Gp help!

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15star · 15/03/2018 09:23

I really can't see anything! Genuinely cannot see any shadow.

BurningGubbins · 15/03/2018 09:24

I can see absolutely nothing. I think because you’re worried about it you’re thinking there’s something there that isn’t. You have lovely skin, btw.

Celebelly · 15/03/2018 09:24

Honestly, it looks perfectly normal to me! Maybe i"m missing something...

Snortles · 15/03/2018 09:25

I honestly cant see anything either.

Glitterzzz · 15/03/2018 09:25

It’s there .... :-(

Moustache shadow .. with photo :-(
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user1483387154 · 15/03/2018 09:25

Can't see anything tbh

Glitterzzz · 15/03/2018 09:26

It’s lovelu your saying that but it’s obvious . This is me with no make up

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NobbyNobberson · 15/03/2018 09:26

Can't see a thing

WhoUpsetTheEquilibrium · 15/03/2018 09:27

I can’t see a thing.

Can you bleach it?

iwanttoeatallthecarbs · 15/03/2018 09:27

If that's a moustache shadow then I'm in trouble - mine is much worse. I wax it and then don't think about it again. Couldn't give two shits. I can't see yours at all op.

Itsnotanthrax · 15/03/2018 09:28

I can't see anything.

WhoUpsetTheEquilibrium · 15/03/2018 09:28

I don’t think people are saying it to be lovely.

You literally cannot see a thing.

FairiesVsPixies · 15/03/2018 09:28

It’s there .... :-(

It's really not.

Lichtie · 15/03/2018 09:28

I couldn't see anything at all. But think I see it now

Moustache shadow .. with photo :-(
bettyboo40 · 15/03/2018 09:28

I genuinely can't see anything there at all.

WaxOnFeckOff · 15/03/2018 09:29

Can't see it OP, it may well be that you can see something close up, but there is nothing that can be seen by anyone else and that's with no make up.

Celebelly · 15/03/2018 09:29

It is completely normal. I have that. My mum has that. It's not anything obvious in any way, shape or form - it's just how skin works.

I think the more worrying thing is that you've got so upset to the extent you don't want to look at people over something that is perfectly normal!

And this is MumsNet - people aren't being nice because they don't want to offend you. People are being honest because there's absolutely nothing going

Archietheinventor · 15/03/2018 09:29

I can’t see anything either. At the risk of sounding like a weirdo, you have lovely shaped lips Smile People pay for a mouth like that. There’s genuinely nothing there (in the photos at least)

DextroDependant · 15/03/2018 09:29

I think I can see what you are referring to but it is literally a shadow, made by the turn of your lips. I think everyone has it. I certainly do anyway and I never thought it was anything unusual.

iwanttoeatallthecarbs · 15/03/2018 09:30

Try this op (not that you need to)

eu.ecotan.com.au/product/face-tanner-water/

It will give your face some light colour overall and even out skin tone.

bastardkitty · 15/03/2018 09:31

Nothing to see at all. Oh @Lichtie I can see it on your edited photo! Is that ultraviolet? Wink

Snape · 15/03/2018 09:31

I can see it, but to be honest I had to really really look at it. Unless someone is sat on your face I doubt others will be staring at it. I think if your this self conscious though maybe book yourself in with a make up artist who may be able to suggest techniques and make-up that would help you feel at ease.

BigDamnHero · 15/03/2018 09:31

OP, in the kindest possible way, I think this is in your head. I genuinely can't see what you're talking about AT ALL. There really isn't anything there. You look entirely normal.

OnARainbow · 15/03/2018 09:31

Agree totally with other posters, I can't see anything!

Wildling · 15/03/2018 09:32

I can't see anything either and I'm looking at your picture on a 4k 42" tv. Your skin looks lovely and shadow free.

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