I just don’t want to help anymore

[TotallyShellshocked]

Feeling terrible about writing this and would appreciate views on this please.

I have been picking up a colleague on the way to work every morning and dropping her home in the evening. She is suffering from ill health and takes strong meds.
In the morning this puts about 10 minutes on my journey time so not too bad however it makes it difficult for me if I want to get in early to catch up on stuff before work gets busy. But I can live with that. In the evening on the other hand I drop her home and then have to battle my way back through traffic in the direction I just cane from to pick up DD. It takes on average 45 mins to get to where I collect DD when drop the colleague home first and it would take only 15 mins to get from work to DD.
I originally offered to help her because the health issue was expected to be short term. Things have meantime escalated and it looks like there is no end in sight. The arrangement was only expected to last a few weeks, months maybe but it had now been well over a year... I have s lit going on in my own life at the moment and I feel so tired. It’s an awful thing to say but I just don’t want to help anymore. How do I break the news gently? Please help. Thanks

[TheEmperorHasNoClothesOn]

Well done @TotallyShellshocked!

I dealt with my own CF situation a couple of months ago. I was so chuffed with myself for being assertive & putting a stop to it (inspired by mumsnetters giving advice dealing with other CF situations). I know you must be on cloud 9 thinking of your freedom from it all...especially after putting up with it for a whole year!!!

More time for yourself and your DD, just as it should be. Enjoy!

[1Vandal]

Any updates about accounts lady and cf?