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AIBU to worry about my daughter's comments

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Hibbsy · 07/03/2018 13:43

Hi all, last night I got back from a 6 day business trip to Amsterdam, when I walked in last night my DD (age 5) ran up to me and gave me a hug and said "hello old mummy". I thought she was referring to my age (I'm only 32) and said "I not old!" in a jokey way and she replied "no, old mummy, i think i have a new mummy now"

When I pressed her further she said that DH had taken her to PizzaHut for her tea and they had sat with another of the mums from school and her daughter who is in same class as DD and that DD and this woman had been kissing!

I put her to bed and confronted DH, he said that he had bumped into this woman and her daughter when they got to PizzaHut and she asked him to join them and that when they were leaving he simply gave her a peck on the cheek to say goodbye. He found it funny but I am really not sure as she is very attractive and has a bit of a reputation around here (she is divorced and is known for jumping from one relationship to the next as well as having some one night stands).

I also checked our bank statement on line and the money paid to PizzaHut was around £50 so it is obvious DH not only paid for him and DD but for her and her daughter as well.

He has strayed once in the past but only a drunken snog on a stag do which he owned up to after I worked it out from jokey comments his mates made to him to try and wind him up. I don't know whether to be concerned or not?

OP posts:
twinklefeather · 09/03/2018 16:57

Definitely a dh problem I’d forget the women and keep an eye on him. Looks like he’s putting himself out there for something more to happen.

Idontdowindows · 09/03/2018 19:54

this one is trust me

And if she succeeds it's because your husband is shit, no because of her.

If she can "steal" him, then any woman can.

theWarOnPeace · 09/03/2018 20:29

As I was reading this, I just thought “my husband would definitely do this!”. He’s very much a type to foot the bill all the time, he always just takes charge of the bill. If we met a friend of mine out somewhere, he’d pay. If we meet my mum, he’ll pay. If we get coffee with school parents, he just swiped his card and it’s done. It isn’t a thing at all. Also, we all do a kiss on the cheek to say bye. This is totally normal for us!

PercyPigAddict · 09/03/2018 20:37

He actually brought it up in conversation last night after putting DD to bed and still thinks it's funny, to be honest I had dreaded broaching the subject again with him but if he has brought it up it make me think that he has nothing to hide.

Ths is what would make me more suspicious! He's got mentionitis.

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