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2 hours late.

294 replies

Mrsknackered · 31/12/2017 20:33

Children in bed for 6.15pm with DP's bestfriend and his new girlfriend arriving for 6.30pm. I've made dinner and had the table set since that time. Said it couldn't be a ridiculously late thing as I have desperately got to prep for exams.
Got a text at 7.30pm saying 'we are running to the shop first, need anything?' I replied 'no thank you, dinner's getting cold!' No reply.
We've been stood up haven't we!?
Really wish I had stuck with the original plan of revision, Grey's Anatomy and a take away :( AIBU to just cancel now? And have a (very rare) evening with DP?

OP posts:
Rossigigi · 31/12/2017 21:13

As you haven't up dated take it they haven't arrived- please turn them away if they do!!!!

SmileEachDay · 31/12/2017 21:14

Why didn’t you call them at 7.30 and say “we arranged it for 6.30, you’re really late?”

aaaaargghhhhelpme · 31/12/2017 21:14

If he's on whatsapp then I doubt they've been in an accident. Texting one hour after they were supposed to be there saying - do you want anything - also suggests they had no intention of being on time

So unbelievably rude

Glad you ate. Enjoy the snuggle time. I'd just drop them. No texts asking where they are. You clearly mean so much to them

Have a good one Wine

Makingahome · 31/12/2017 21:15

How bloody rude!

Cantuccit · 31/12/2017 21:15

The girlfriend's new and presumably doesn't have your number, but DH's best friend should have the courtesy to text at least.

ButtMuncher · 31/12/2017 21:17

That's bloody awful! Half hour maybe understandable, but two fucking hours with no text? Angry

WillowWept · 31/12/2017 21:17

Jeez some people are appallingly rude

Couchpotato3 · 31/12/2017 21:18

Shameless place-mark. Do update us if you hear anything more!
How incredibly rude of them

WasDoingFine · 31/12/2017 21:18

I'm astounded. What does yr DH think about it?

GabsAlot · 31/12/2017 21:18

his bf is a twat how can your dp feel bad about not letting them in its 3 hours late!

KarmaStar · 31/12/2017 21:18

Yes go ahead and eat OP.I reckon they were two cowardly to turn up after your (fair enough)text reply.
Happy New Year

emmcan · 31/12/2017 21:19

Cancel. Eat. Have a bit of OH.

QOD · 31/12/2017 21:21

Wow NYECF’s

Thirdshepherdfromtheleft · 31/12/2017 21:22

How rude!! I have a friend like this and he almost takes pride in the fact that he's always inappropriately late..... Invitations are dwindling!!Grin

By the way I'm on my own on NYE and am now far too invested in whether they turn up or not.

notsohippychick · 31/12/2017 21:23

That’s awful!!!!!! Please please please answer the door, tell them to ‘do one’ and shut it again.

ArchchancellorsHat · 31/12/2017 21:23

Me too. I need to know!

babigailwabble · 31/12/2017 21:23

bloody outrageous! i'd tell them to fuck off if only they would show themselves to hear it.

PurplePillowCase · 31/12/2017 21:24

get dh undressed so he can't open the door Wink

WillowWitch · 31/12/2017 21:25

Disgustingly rude. We have friends that appear 2hrs+ late and the rest of the guests sitting starving. Stopped inviting them and they complained to other people that we no longer invite them and they have no idea why Hmm.

Doesn't sound like your guests are coming at all, chalk it up to experience and enjoy your night. This says a lot about a person, maybe you need new friends.

JediStoleMyBike · 31/12/2017 21:27

How bloody rude. I'd text and tell them not to bother.

Stolenchoccies · 31/12/2017 21:28

awfukl

Mrsknackered · 31/12/2017 21:30

This is brilliant. 'Hello, I'm so sorry we took a nap and the alarm didn't go off. Any chance we can come over first thing tomorrow?'

What a load of BS.

I said, "no, out tomorrow"

"Can we make a date for later in the week?"

Not going to reply. No we fucking can't!

OP posts:
MiddleClassProblem · 31/12/2017 21:30
Shock
MiddleClassProblem · 31/12/2017 21:31

Did they nap at the shop?

MiddleClassProblem · 31/12/2017 21:31

Twats