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Do I need to cancel my wedding?

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Haggishappens · 26/10/2017 18:30

FIL has cancer, diagnosed 4 weeks ago as untreatable and there's nothing they can do, he was given 4-8 months.

We were due to get married in April but obviously moved the wedding forward as fast as we could, which was to this weekend.

Problem is, in the last 48 hours FIL has gone from fully functioning to bed bound and a bit confused. He's lost the strength in his legs completely and he's very weak.

DP wants the wedding to go ahead but I'm not sure if we should cancel?

FIL probably won't be well enough to attend and the whole reason for moving it forward was so he could be there Sad

Haven't spoken to MIL about it as they have much much more important things to think about, so should we cancel or go ahead? What if he doesn't make it? How do you even cancel a wedding at this stage?

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OP posts:
BlueSuffragette · 30/10/2017 15:50

Many congratulations. Flowers

mumeeee · 30/10/2017 15:56

Congratulations. So glad your FIL could make it and you had a wonderful day. Lovely photo

Kezzamo · 30/10/2017 19:11

Ahh congratulations! Lovely to hear and gorgeous photo x

Readermumof3 · 30/10/2017 19:58

Aww that’s brilliant! What a great photo 😍

LunchBoxPolice · 30/10/2017 20:05

Congratulations Flowers

schoolgaterebel · 30/10/2017 20:16

Congratulations, I love a happy MN update!

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peanut2017 · 30/10/2017 20:32

So happy for you and that your fil could make it! Congrats 🎊

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