Do I need to cancel my wedding?

[Haggishappens]

FIL has cancer, diagnosed 4 weeks ago as untreatable and there's nothing they can do, he was given 4-8 months.

We were due to get married in April but obviously moved the wedding forward as fast as we could, which was to this weekend.

Problem is, in the last 48 hours FIL has gone from fully functioning to bed bound and a bit confused. He's lost the strength in his legs completely and he's very weak.

DP wants the wedding to go ahead but I'm not sure if we should cancel?

FIL probably won't be well enough to attend and the whole reason for moving it forward was so he could be there

Haven't spoken to MIL about it as they have much much more important things to think about, so should we cancel or go ahead? What if he doesn't make it? How do you even cancel a wedding at this stage?

Help

Congratulations MrsHaggis So happy for you that your father in law was there to enjoy your wonderful day!

That photo is absolutely beautiful!

So glad it worked out for you all. Gorgeous pic many congratulations!

Congratulations Mrs! Really pleased for you all that you went ahead and FIL was able to be there to enjoy your special day.

Aww so pleased you were able to share the day with fil after all.

Congratulations. Beautiful photo

Beautiful photo. Glad all went well 💕

Congratulations! So pleased that FIL was able to attend. That photo is beautiful!

Awwww... that looks just gorgeous.
So happy you got the day you wanted.
I also hope you get to enjoy the honeymoon.

congrat mrs haggis!

so lovly that fil made it bless him

👰🏻 🤵 🥂🍾

Congratulations to you and your husband. You looksd stunning, and that's such a beautiful photo. I may just have something in my eye :-)

So much love to you and the rest of your family.

Congratulations! You sound so lovely, and your concern for your DH and FIL rather than yourself has really shone through in your posts. I'd say Mr Haggis is a very lucky man. Delighted your FIL made it and could enjoy your day. Wishing you a very long and happy marriage x

Congratulations and you're making some treasured happy memories at a very sad time 💗x

What a beautiful photo! Congratulations; how lovely that FIL was there too. Auspicious start!

gorgeous,this pic needs framing and walling hehe :) enjoy the rest of ur life being mr and mrs.so glad FIL was there.

I know I am late to the party so to speak but I was going to say he would be happy to see his son happy and settled so go ahead even if he can't make it.

I am so glad he did and what a beautiful picture.

Many congratulations.

What a beautiful photo! Congratulations! So pleased that your FIL could be there. What a lovely outcome

Beautiful photo. Congratulations to you both

Lurked on your thread and really happy for all of you that you all had such a special day - congratulations!

Lovely news! Congratulations! x

Congratulations. Great photo. Sounds like the wedding gave your FIL a boost.

Congatulations. Brilliant.

Congratulations

Congratulations! What a beautiful photo. I'm glad you all had a wonderful day. I'm so glad your father in law had a day out celebrating with you - I bet he'd have hated to miss it and it did him good to concentrate on something fun for a day.

Congratulations I'm so pleased FIL made the day and what a stunning photo x