Do I need to cancel my wedding?

[Haggishappens]

FIL has cancer, diagnosed 4 weeks ago as untreatable and there's nothing they can do, he was given 4-8 months.

We were due to get married in April but obviously moved the wedding forward as fast as we could, which was to this weekend.

Problem is, in the last 48 hours FIL has gone from fully functioning to bed bound and a bit confused. He's lost the strength in his legs completely and he's very weak.

DP wants the wedding to go ahead but I'm not sure if we should cancel?

FIL probably won't be well enough to attend and the whole reason for moving it forward was so he could be there

Haven't spoken to MIL about it as they have much much more important things to think about, so should we cancel or go ahead? What if he doesn't make it? How do you even cancel a wedding at this stage?

Help

Have a lovely day!

Congratulations on your wedding day op I hope everything goes to plan

Happy wedding day, I truly hope your FIL makes it to celebrate with you.

My MIL is terminally ill and it's shit. It's really shit. Sending much love to you all x

Have a fantastic day. Hope FIL makes it even for half an hour xx

Have a lovely day op.
Hope fil makes it and all goes smoothly.

Just seen this thread.

I hope you have a long and very happy marriage. Congratulations

Happy Wedding Day OP!

I hope it's a lovely day for everyone and you find comfort in facing the weeks ahead as husband and wife

Happy wedding day and I hope FIL does manage to come oh and (wedding)

Have a lovely day OP and DH to be! hope fil can make it

Congratulations! Best wishes to you all

Have a wonderful wedding day. I hope fil is able to come and you have a day to remember

Have a wonderful day. You sound like a lovely, caring family. I hope that you, your brand new husband, your MIL and your FIL all have a fantastic day.

congratualtions haggis.i no th tears today will be of happiness and sadness mixed.but this is your day and now to fil too.he would want more than anything for this to be happening and I'm so gla it is.whatever happens from hear he will and you all will be so happy he was around in person or not to know you got married to the love of your life.itl ease his pain so much more than some medications! and ur dp can say his dad was there.awesome.

I’ve got tears at the thought FIL might be attending (and I’m a hard faced cow!)

Have the most wonderful day

fingers crossed!

Wishing you a wonderful day

I hope your father in law is able to be there!

Congratulations!

I hope you have a wonderful day and fil and mil are able to attend

Very best wishes to you all today.

Happy wedding day! I hope you all manage to have a day to remember x

wishing you and dp all happiness x

Congratulations!! Hope your FIL makes it and you all have a lovely day 🥂💕

I hope today goes wonderfully for you all 👰🏼 🤵❤️💍

Congratulations!🎈🍾🎂🎉🎊🥂

Hope FIL is OK and that yor day glows. xx