Do I need to cancel my wedding?

[Haggishappens]

FIL has cancer, diagnosed 4 weeks ago as untreatable and there's nothing they can do, he was given 4-8 months.

We were due to get married in April but obviously moved the wedding forward as fast as we could, which was to this weekend.

Problem is, in the last 48 hours FIL has gone from fully functioning to bed bound and a bit confused. He's lost the strength in his legs completely and he's very weak.

DP wants the wedding to go ahead but I'm not sure if we should cancel?

FIL probably won't be well enough to attend and the whole reason for moving it forward was so he could be there

Haven't spoken to MIL about it as they have much much more important things to think about, so should we cancel or go ahead? What if he doesn't make it? How do you even cancel a wedding at this stage?

Help

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Cingratulations!

Hope it all goes well, OP, and that FIL is able to be there.

I hope you have a beautiful day Haggis

to you all

Hope you are able to have a lovely day even though it's bound to be a bit bittersweet. fingers crossed your fil made it x

Happy Wedding Day Haggis. Hope things are going well x

Happy wedding day OP. Hope that you're all having a lovely day x

I hope your day is wonderful and FIL is with you and comfortable. Congratulations!

I hope it was all fantastic

I hope you've all had a truly special day. Congratulations!!

Hope you and your family had a very special day

Oh I do hope it was a fantastic celebration

Congratulations! Hope your day was beautiful and full of love xx

Well we had a fab day and I'm a Mrs! FIL came for the whole day and had a rest half way through and I think they even stayed the night at the hotel

So so so happy, thanks for all the brilliant advice everyone

Awww. Congratulations

I would go for it. Even if he can't attend you can show him photos and talk to him all about the day. Either way there will be some sadness whether you have it now or after he has died. But perhaps at this awfully sad time the whole family would benefit from getting together for a happy occasion.

Beautiful picture, congratulations!

Duh!!!! Congratulations! So pleased!

So pleased you had a lovely day. What a beautiful photo!

Congratulations

Wow that's amazing. So pleased for you all.

Pleased it all went so well.

And what a fabulous photo! You look stunning and I love your DH's hat.

Congratulations! Beautiful picture and I'm so pleased your FIL managed to make it too :)

What a lovely outcome! Congratulations and best wishes for your married life together.