**Trigger Warning - sensitive subject Title edited by MNHQ** I am absolutely heartbroken and I need to know I'm not being unreasonable to end a friendship *Very sensitive subject*

[PhDPepper]

I had a molar pregnancy this year and it was fucking awful. I’ve seen a ‘friend’ today in the street and she completely blanked me. I messaged her when I got home and asked what was wrong.

And I got back a tirade of abuse about how I’d had an abortion and killed my baby and that if I never got pregnant again it would be karma.

I did have a D&C to remove the molar pregnancy but it wasn’t a baby, it was a complete molar pregnancy with no genetic tissue. It fucking broke me to have that operation but I’ve never considered it to be an abortion.

I have not replied as it’s totally flawed me, but I need to know im not being unreasonable to tell her to go fuck herself

Nah, she's a bit of a toaster too. She's got the brains of one, but not nearly the use.

Oh my god... how on earth were you friends in the first place with someone so thick, ignorant, stupid, self absorbed etc. Sorry, that sounds like a bad reflection on you, but how on earth is someone like that still walking amongst us? My flabber is well and truly ghasted. Hope you're ok OP. Hope you have a lovely holiday.

If I didn’t know you as a previous poster, PHD, I’d have said this was a wind up! I can’t believe how awful she is! What a shitty human being!

Before this I had never heard of what you've had but I can use the Internet and as a complete stranger I sympathise with you and wouldn't wish it on anyone. As your friend, I would have been at your door, holding your hand, not offering you juice plus! Words absolutely fail me over how selfish and inconsiderate people can be.

You are better off without but sure you know that already

I agree that she is a moron of the highest order.

I also don't see why you should have to point out to her that is was a molar pregnancy in order to justify having a termination. It's none of her business.

Friendship which is conditional on you never making a choice she doesn't agree with is not a friendship.

Good grief. Words fail me.

A good friend of mine had a molar pregnancy many years ago op. She went on to have two lovely dcs.

Enjoy your holiday. Hope karma bites your ex-friend fully on the arse.

She is clearly both thick and hypocritical. The juicing thing is the cherry on top, but I was agog at her brass neck - giving you shit for having an ‘abortion’ while getting your husband to give her a discount on legal work.

Glad you’ve blocked her. Pretty much anyone would be a better friend.

Well done for blocking her. Before hand, I would have gone with “what part of fuck off dont you understand?” but it doesn’t seem like anything sinks into her tiny little mind. And now Juice Plus!! Really how anyone so stupid can function is beyond me...I mean walking and breathing simultaneously must be a challenge.....

Omg what planet is she on, she has the skin of about 400 elephants. No apology, no shall we talk, I've been a total bitch. Fecking hell she has a nerve hasent she, and cannot take a hint even if it slapped her in the face. Juice plus, what the actual fuck!!! So she's an expert on molar pregnancy is she! Your best off without that nasty cow in your life. Why shou,d she think you want to spend any time with her or her kids, after what she put you through. Especially what you have been through, I am😮😮😮😮😮

What. The. Actual. Fuck? Juice fucking plus? After everything you've been through, and the vile error she made, she's trying to sell you juice plus?
I'm not a violent person but I want to smack this despicable person onto next Tuesday.

She's not worth another breath or thought.

So you're off to Boston? Fab city! I was there briefly this summer. If you get a chance, take the ferry out to Salem, it's a lovely day trip. (And maybe find a witch to curse... anyone who may need cursing )

@MiddleClassProblem if I could post her texts on here without showing her name etc I would

She almost sounds as if she thinks she’s funny, or something. I can’t understand her tone at all.

Is it that she’s aware she has fucked up, somewhere in the tiny brainspace that remains beneath the thick layer of her wilful ignorance, and is trying to brazen it out somehow? By being extreme?

Anyway, I’m glad you’ve blocked her. Toaster indeed.

No way... No fucking way! Just.... No. Why is she being a cunt?

What a bitch! Heartless and cruel!

She really should not have bred, being that nasty and thick.she hold have done mankind a favour and not spread her genes

Juice Plus!! Excellent, get on the blower to the hmole research team and tell them you have found a way of preventing molar pregnancies...praise be!

I had several 'helpful' suggestions after my molar pregnancy, I would hear the words, 'have you tried.....' and smile and think FUCK OFF in my head.

I'm just reading this now. Wow. Just incredible. I thought it was just me with ex friends as stupid as this. Wow. I'm so sorry. I've had the same treatment and it took twelve weeks. Just awful. I got pregnant with my lb about 8 months later. Much love to you. Enjoy your holiday, you both deserve it!

@AlpacaPicnic yes cannot wait to go! So excited! We’re going to do Salem on Halloween

Trust me - vile little bitches like her always get their comeuppance. Lady Karma will wrap her cold bony hands around that foul evil neck of hers...

I'm sorry for what you went through and I'm sorry you've had to put up with such astounding ignorance

Just sticking my head up to say how shocked I am. I didn’t realise anyone could be so self absorbed. Anyone can make a mistake, but to hold to your position and carry on like that... gobsmacked!

As a random internet stranger, I didn't know what a molar pregnancy was, I googled it, I thought "wow, how horrible, poor OP".

As a friend of the OP, those responses defy rationale and compassion. The "friend" has left me speechless with her thoughtlessness. Takes self-centred stupidity to a new level. Wow.

So sorry OP and have a great time in Boston OP

Thank you for not deleting the thread, I did know about molar pregnancy but had no realised you had to go through chemo as well, that’s so terrible to an already heartbreaking situation
As for your friends, they are just fucking shocking! Juice plus? Is she on crack? What an insensitive prick she is.
And the fact she expects you to spend time with her babies because you have none? Oh yes let me just rub it in your face a bit more, what a cunt!

Enjoy your holiday and make some new friends while you’re there

wtaf

juice plus? Op wa she always this callous and ignorant towards people or is this new

Salem on Halloween? That's going to be amazing! Busy but amazing!

I had a very nice lunch in Reds sandwich shop. Cheap but large... my kind of food :)

PHD totally understand the temptation your DH has to name and shame her but obviously much better not to. It’s like when you watch someone slap someone in a film and give an inner cheer yet you’d never do it irl.