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To think you dont put a rapist in a woman's prison?

319 replies

bambambini · 06/09/2017 12:57

Do women really not count here, has all common sense been ababdoned? How is this even possible?

www.cetusnews.com/news/Transgender-rapist-lag-‘put-in-segregation’-over-‘sexual-advances-to-female-prisoners-.BkeCnqnht-.html

OP posts:
FerretsAreFeminists · 06/09/2017 17:59

Personally I think that a transwoman should be sent to a male prison. Sure they might feel intimidated or scared and may even suffer abuse at the hands of their male inmates but imo the whole point of prison is that it should be a horrible experience. Perhaps if transwomen are harassed in prison then it might remind them to behave when they get out and put them off from reoffending.

Wink
Jaxhog · 06/09/2017 18:03

Just wait until men can 'self identify' as women next year. Then it will be open season.

I'm betting we paid for his op too.

Andrewofgg · 06/09/2017 18:03
  • convicted of a rape obviously
SmileEachDay · 06/09/2017 18:03

[[https://wp.me/p7Xf9K-wl ]]

Article aboyt men in female prisons.

TormundsGingerBeard · 06/09/2017 18:18

With the increasing amount of male prisoners 'transitioning' I think it's about time there was a prison for transsexuals. One wing could be for MTT and the other for FTT. If they want to be closer to home they can choose to go into a prison appropriate to their biological sex.

Keep lady dicks out of female prisons Angry

abacuss · 06/09/2017 18:25

I'm amazed this thread hasn't been deleted for being transphobic TBH.

Boulshired · 06/09/2017 18:31

How does a double rapist pass the psych test for treatment, a crime drenched in misogyny and hatred of women.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 06/09/2017 18:31

That's not fair to MNHQ, Abacuss. They are very good about allowing discussion of trans issues ime. On other sites and libfem Facebook groups, yes it definitely would be.

AssassinatedBeauty · 06/09/2017 18:32

@abacuss, do you think that it's possible to discuss this at all without being considered transphobic?

FerretsAreFeminists · 06/09/2017 18:33

Are you being sarcastic @abacuss?

abacuss · 06/09/2017 18:36

No I'm serious. This stuff gets deleted everywhere, and usually any comments hinting at this stuff being ridiculous or insulting the trans ideology are deleted too - I'm surprised it's still standing here.

(Note, I'm not saying I find it offensive myself.)

FerretsAreFeminists · 06/09/2017 18:39

Sorry, I thought you were saying that you found it offensive.

MN is one of the few places where you can still discuss things like this tbh. Although you still occasionally get the odd poster plopping in and telling us how horrible and transphobic we are and then buggering off never to be seen or heard from again.

TormundsGingerBeard · 06/09/2017 18:41

I think it's just managed to slip under the radar so far abacuss

I'm sure there will be someone along to report it soon enough!

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 06/09/2017 18:42

Mumsnet is far more pro-woman than most other websites.

Elendon · 06/09/2017 18:42

I'm amazed this thread hasn't been deleted for being transphobic TBH.

Can you explain to me what transphobia is in the context of this thread?

@abacuss

EmpressOfTheSpartacusOceans · 06/09/2017 18:43

Oh yes, Tara.

The same Tara who made a living peddling their "seven-inch surprise" on sex sites.

Oldie2017 · 06/09/2017 18:44

It is very important websites allow freedom of speech. The sooner we rid the UK of "safe spaces" on line (i.e. drastic awful censorship of free speech) the better.

Elendon · 06/09/2017 18:45

Woman, women, girls, mean nothing anymore.

It's clear that no one in power gives a shit either.

Gosh, we must be costly to the NHS or employment or something.

Welcome to the end of maternity pay and leave as well. Yes, Brexit.

FruitCider · 06/09/2017 18:48

Ok I can't even be arsed to read through the cluster fuck of the last few comments. Having worked in prisons, my view is every prisoner with a penis should be in a male prison, every prisoner without a penis should be in a female prison. I have no issue with MTT who have had their penis removed going into a female prison. My issue is the risk penises create in female prisons (alongside the fact that 80% of MTT have no intention of having their male genitalia removed).

Elendon · 06/09/2017 18:49

And what cost £10,000 on the NHS via prison that gave him his womanhood with penis still intact? I don't believe that figure. Nevertheless, I do think.

What a grade a arsehole.

I'm not transphobic nor am I a bigot.

Elendon · 06/09/2017 18:51

Surely there can be an institution that will house 100 trans prisoners?

That's a lot of prisoners.

Elendon · 06/09/2017 19:00

Clearly what we have are men who are abusing the system and transwomen in order to get access to women.

If I was a transwoman going about my ordinary everyday life (like most transwomen), I would be horrified and disgusted at this man.

abacuss · 06/09/2017 19:03

I don't think there is a universally agreed definition of transphobia anymore @Elendon.

It's not just the obvious stuff like hatred, poor treatment, or broad stereotypes about a group of people. I think it's becoming any situation or comment that could potentially trigger someone's dysphoria or upset them in any way.

It's any comment that says you can't be a woman if you have a penis, for example, or suggests that gender isn't a feeling, or labels someone as a "transwoman" instead of "just" a woman. Many things on this thread would be labelled transphobic elsewhere.

It's how conversations like this are routinely shut down and why situations like this one will become increasingly commonplace.

CaoNiMartacus · 06/09/2017 19:08

This is why gender critical radfems have been so worried. This is why we've been discussing it so exhaustively. It's not a random abstract thing. It's real and it's hugely damaging to women. THIS is what we're on about.

Elendon · 06/09/2017 19:10

Thanks @abacuss for setting out your view of transphobia.

Why is it hatred to say that a person still in possession of a penis is still a man?

I've been triggered by your reply. Do you care about me?

If transphobia doesn't exist then don't use it.

Being gay (a sexual preference and nothing to do with gender) can bring about the death penalty, jail and severe beatings and rape. How @abacuss can you possibly equate this currently legal throughout the world behaviour with a double rapist who wants to 'identify' as a woman?