To confront these so called friends?

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Arranged to see Beauty and the Beast with 3 friends. In a group chat, two cancelled as they couldn't afford it and the third cancelled as we should do it instead when everyone is free.

Flat mate who is also friends with one of them saw on snapchat that they'd all gone this afternoon. They'd blocked me from seeing this Snapchat.

Aibu to confront them? Tempted to leave a message in our group chat.

What cunts! Really high school stuff. It's not you, it's them. Don't waste any more time or headspace wondering why they did it, it will simply be that they're arseholes, whatever excuse they make (if they even bother to make one).

I've just been removed from the group

Wankers 😤

I hate the pack mentality.

They're not even trying to defend it?!

Op, I'm sorry! 😩 They're not worth it. You seem lovely. Hold toe head high!

They would wind me right up! To not even give you any kind of explanation, no matter how shitty it might have been.

I'd be fuming right now

I'm so angry for you!

Wow, they sound like a right bunch of bitches.

Bunch of cunts. If I were your flatmate, I'd remove myself from their group.

They would be my ex friends.

Nasty, horrible bitches!

You're better off without that kind of puerile shit in your life!

What a horrible thing to do, so hurtful. Better you find out now than years down the road. and for you OP

nice, so they don't even have the decency to explain anything to you.

I kept getting removed from a group chat by one person. Not one of the group stuck up for me. I confronted her, over messages, about it and she was full of bullshit excuses and quite frankly, had no reasonable excuse at all. Apart from 2, I cut the whole group out as they showed their true colours. It still massively irks me though.

I really want to know why guess I'll never know now. Can't even ask one of them now

Better off out of their poxy group. Absolute bitches.

I'd be messaging them another way. Text, Facebook, whatsapp etc to get a bloody explanation from one of the cows. There must be one that's easier to break than the others!

Is it something your flatmate could find out?
Are you ok at the moment? Is your flatmate there?

What a nasty bunch of bitches!

I had a couple of 'friends' like this and let it get to me. I ended up losing a lot of last year to depression

YouKnow I'd feel the same as you about wanting to know- but their reason is probably ridiculous, and if you did know, it wouldn't change things or make you feel better. I'm so sorry that this happened to you

Since you're out of the group they will have to bully someone else to feel better about themselves. You can go find nice friends now instead of this miserable lot.

Why would you need to know why ? they have treated you appallingly... no excuse you would receive would justify this behaviour ...

walk on by x

Block them back then - or dont actually as they'll prob use that to cause drama- just change name to bitchy Mctwatface and if you have an iPhone there's something you can do to not let calls/texts through. Have you been blocked on Facebook (if you still use it that is!!)

That's really mean. How horrible
I agree go on other social media and ask individuals - start with the one you feel closest to.