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He forgot

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user1485471386 · 25/02/2017 17:09

So, me and my DP have been having some difficulties in the bedroom recently, however he's now been put on medication and things are going great BlushGrin
So, it was his birthday this week and today I took him to one of his favourite places, payed for VIP treatment etc. Cost me my weeks wages nearly but never mind! Well on the way there we decided (thus being my suggestion by the way) that on our return we would stop by at the local fancy dress shop and pick up some costumes for tonight ;).
Cutting long story short, DP loved his day out and was beaming from ear to ear at the end. So anyway afterwards we get into the car and begin driving home (me feeling all excited about costumes) when DP says to me, "great day babe are we ready to go home?" to which I replied "Oh, isn't there anywhere else we need to go?" the answer, "No, don't think so," and drove us all the way home.
So now I feel really annoyed. I gave my wages and my time for him today doing something I hated just to please him. I didn't want to "remind" him of the shop because I thought if it was important to him he would have remembered, why should I have to keep telling him. I suggested it and he knew how excited I was . Now I feel down and a bit cheated. Aibu? Would you have felt the same?

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FlogMeNow · 26/02/2017 11:21

Oh dear! I've got a maids costume, a wench costume, a pirate costume & a santa's elf costume! Clearly I am a disgrace to all womankind! Should I be tarred & feathered, or perhaps a public flogging (possibly whilst in maids costume) would be more appropriate???

I love dressing up, it is just a bit of harmless fun!

Ineedmorelemonpledge · 26/02/2017 12:05

Does your DP dress up too Flog?

Genuinely curious and living vicariously here! Grin

Bunnyfuller · 26/02/2017 17:54

Quietly puts away the Mr Tumble costume.

MiddleClassProblem · 26/02/2017 18:03

Grin shudder

sofiainwonderland · 26/02/2017 20:14

He wanted you to be a maid and you're okay with that? Jeeeez😂

Booshbeesh · 26/02/2017 20:40

Just go home and jump him. If he isnt bothered about the outifts maybe he just wants the P ;)

Funnyonion17 · 26/02/2017 20:44

Yabu. Why didn't you just tell him? You sound a bit OTT IMO. You treat him for his birthday and now your sulking that you put effort in and didn't get to visit the sex shop after. It's not like he said no, people do forget. Don't take it so extremely. I know from personal experience what a partners lack of drive etc can do to self esteem, so I presume your over reacting is due to that?

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