To ask how not to be frumpy

[Moomoomango]

I feel like total mum frump. I'm overweight (working on it) I rarely put on make up and I generally feel like a frump. I'm only 29, two children 5&1. Please tell me how mums at soft play look so put together and gorgeous- whilst I am just straggling along delighted we've made it out the house? What simple routines / things should I do / buy to look less frumpy?!

Isyss
What helped me personally is I have a green/fruit shake every morning with maca root powder and chia seeds

Clarys
A green matcha smoothie with a lot of vitamins and fibre is great, imo?

Erm.. what language are you lot speaking?

As opposed to "frumpy" banana smoothie perhaps?