To not have DD's best friend for a sleepover tonight?

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She's a lovely girl and she normally stays when she spends the day with us. I made it v clear when I messaged her mum with the invitation to bowling/cinema/dinner that I would be dropping her home on the way back.

Have hardly seen DH all week, DS also been away for two days and due back this evening so I really just want a night with just us. She really is a lovely girl but has quite significant medical needs - which I'm fine with and can deal with - so it's not a time to relax if you know what I mean. Her mum has just messaged me to say that she has forgotten her overnight bag and can I pick it up on my way past.

I feel a bit shit saying 'not tonight', but I'm tired, I want to have a couple of glasses of wine, relax and watch some shit telly. Am I being a horrible cow?

What happened OP?

Awaiting update OP

Don't feel guilty. It sounds like she's chancing her arm.

She knew and was chancing it!

How old are the girls?

The mum definitely knows what the original plans were but as the day has gone on she's decided she fancied a night out and so would chance her arm with this nonsense.

Having a child with medical needs is very stressful but you sound like you do plenty to give her a break anyway. Don't feel guilty.

Oh dear hope it went well

Hope she wasn't out OP!

Cheeky fucking cow!!!

Don't feel bad op, she should be thoroughly ashamed of herself with that massive assumption.

Whats the outcome?

Definitely taking the piss and chancing it

She's definitely expected to get away with this.

Op's got on the wine a bit fast

What a chancer double check you did actually send the 'no sleepover' text though

She got all wound up after reading this thread, dropped the daughter to the door and belted the mother in the head and kneed her in the stomach.
She fixed her hair and walked off with her head held high.

Was so hoping there'd have been an update by the time I read the whole thread

Argh. Was eagerly rushing to end of thread for update and it's not there!! Cmon op.

Shamelessly place marking!

Cheeky cah

I see OP's last post was 19.44, so doubt there will be any more now.

Another one hoping for an update (I need to get a life!)

some people , her not you

looks like it prob went ahead

that mother is a pisstaker

Op, does the mum reciprocate your days out and sleepovers? Ever?

I hope you're having a nice evening with your family and probably ignoring your phone. I hope you stood your ground too