Having a christening at our local church and a bit of a party afterward, approx 30 guests and 10 children.
We live in a relatively expensive town in the South where unfortunately hotels and b&bs are very busy so charge a fair bit per night.
A few uni friends who are coming have messaged me saying the hotels are more expensive than they had anticipated and would I be paying all/ a contribution towards their accommodation for the night.
They are live 2 hours away, no children. The christening starts at 11 and I imagine the after celebrations will end about 5.
After the cost of the party, cake..etc I just can't afford to pay towards their accommodation.
WIBU to say no?
I'd completely understand if they couldn't afford to come and aren't able to make it.