To find it annoying if men try n do certain things for me, like open car doors or help with chairs

[LardLizard]

Ffs I can open the car door myself and seat down at a table without help

Believe it *

Jesus Bertrand throw me a bone. I really don't want to stir shit

I'm not trawling through the whole bloody thing cmonnnnn!

wrong thread ego, son talk is the other one

So basically you're going down the "feminists are all nasty and wrong, but no I'm not going to say how or when- it just proves you're nasty and wrong that you don't just know" line?

No not at all

So what do you mean??????

I've just told you I have respect for you and I've apologised. R u just goading me now?

With regards to what

Ego I've learned so much from reading threads on MN, too. It took me a while to post on feminism threads. But I feel enriched by it.

I have a DS, too.

I don't need your respect or your apology. I just want to know what you're talking about.

I don't understand which part you're referring to. Jesus. I'm not saying you need it I just offered it. Im not here to be intentionally rude or shit over what you believe

Ego i was being light hearted.

Ego does that mean I'm a bad woman and a bad mum to my son becasue I'm not a feminist (genuine question)

Stop 😏

Sorry, it was kind of a forward thinking question. He's still a baby. But I do wonder. I was raised in a house full of women so it will be a very different experience for me when he is older.

OK.

I want to know the "brutal truth"

I want to know where in this thread you found "the rules of feminism"

I want to know where on this thread anyone said that an 80 year old man opening a door for a woman is a "patronizing arsehole"

You know what it is? I feel guilt. Like guilt that I'm female. Do you understand? Like I should apologise because I'm female. That's how I feel sometimes.

They didn't say it Bertrand, I'm going o say for the last time I've apologised for my previous comments. Now can u leave it?

Were you never taught 'I want' doesn't get you anywhere.