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To find it annoying if men try n do certain things for me, like open car doors or help with chairs

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LardLizard · 07/06/2016 22:44

Ffs I can open the car door myself and seat down at a table without help

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Querty12345 · 09/06/2016 20:23

Sorry in first post that was supposed to be 'you have criticised my opinion'

I HAVE EXPLAINED A COUPLE OF TIMES IM TRYING TO MULTI TASK WHILD TALKING TO YOU BUT FEEL FREE TO IGNORE ME YET AGAIN.

Querty12345 · 09/06/2016 20:23

I never said that I have always said 'some feminists'

BertrandRussell · 09/06/2016 20:23

I am now really really confused. You said "the rules of feminism as stated on this thread"- can you say what you meant? I genuinely don't understand.

Querty12345 · 09/06/2016 20:24

Jesus Christ. How many fucking times can I apologise?!

Querty12345 · 09/06/2016 20:24

Ego that second bit wasn't aimed at u

Sallystyle · 09/06/2016 20:24

What is NAFALT?

Egosumquisum · 09/06/2016 20:24

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BertrandRussell · 09/06/2016 20:25

" I'm actually really upset in real life over this"
So am I !

Querty12345 · 09/06/2016 20:25

I'm struggling to keep up responding to the back lash. I've apologised I can't do much else.

Querty12345 · 09/06/2016 20:25

I don't think I'm any different

Egosumquisum · 09/06/2016 20:25

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Querty12345 · 09/06/2016 20:26

No you're not b if you were you would accept my apology gracefully as I did when you apologised to me but you haven't it's mean

Querty12345 · 09/06/2016 20:26

Yeah so feminists have to take criticism too just like non feminists do

Sallystyle · 09/06/2016 20:27

Cheers, Ego

Querty12345 · 09/06/2016 20:27

I am trying to keep up answering my finger are moving very fast!!! AHHHH

BertrandRussell · 09/06/2016 20:28

Querty- I don't want you to apologise- I would love it if you explained!

Egosumquisum · 09/06/2016 20:28

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Querty12345 · 09/06/2016 20:30

Ok do you want the brutal truth. You're not going to like it. But I will give it to you if you like. The thing is if I do it's just going to start this shit all over again so there's just no point

Egosumquisum · 09/06/2016 20:31

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Querty12345 · 09/06/2016 20:31

Ego from what I see its whoever has the biggest gang. On this thread right now, I'm getting ganged up on becasue I don't believe what you all believe and I called you out on it and instead of a discussion it got nasty. at one point in this thread I did feel like I started getting somewhere. Now it's gone weird again. I can't really cope with it its frying my mind

EveryoneElsie · 09/06/2016 20:31

Just be assertive and state your point. you've managed to do that so far. You dont have to play this game.

Querty12345 · 09/06/2016 20:32

Ego I was talking to b! Ffs see?! Whatever I say you fucking attack me.

Querty12345 · 09/06/2016 20:32

I'm not playing any games

Querty12345 · 09/06/2016 20:33

I know feminists have been told things thsy don't like. But if I do it in jut going to get jumped again and I can't deal

Egosumquisum · 09/06/2016 20:33

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