A message to the woman sleeping with my husband and about to introduce your kids to my kids

[mojoawol]

Please please think about it. Me and DH have been separated 6 months, you've been together 2 months. Making family introductions a) this soon after our separation and b) this soon after you've known each other is complete madness.
I know you're in the same place I was several years ago - he seems like the most amazing person you've ever met, you get each other, you connect blah blah.
You don't really know him yet. Slow down. My kids have been through alot recently. I'm sure your kids have too. There's no need to rush things. This is too soon.
Please.

Sorry OP, hope you are okay.

You don't just need a lawyer, you need a SHL! If you have friends who've come out well from a divorce, speak to them.

You also need to get on it right away before your STBX gets to them first (a la The Starter Wife).

Has he ever talked about lawyers he fought against who infuriated him and were difficult to beat? Are you on speaking terms with his ex and who did she use? I would be careful to ensure I did not employ a narcissistic lawyer though because the two together could completely drain all your funds.

Can you both speak to the children and ask them if theyr ready/willing? Or r they too young? Gd luck it must be hard