To think this was too much? Possibly tmi (sexual related)

[Strangeoccurence]

I dropped my son off at my exes house. I was upset, he hugged me and i feel took advantage of my vulnerability.

He groped me, and didnt stop when asked and told to stop.
He was making out he was playing, but at the end of it all - he was still doing it! Telling me he knows i want it - i am far from in the mood, and i wont sleep with someone im not in a relationship with. Ex or not! Telling me he is frisky and i should just do it. It would make me feel better etc. Getting it out and forcing my hand to it.

I dont know if i am thinking too much of an attempt to win me over for a quicky, or if he really did take advantage

He believed my lie that i had gone out and didnt come. I know i shouldnt have lied, i just panicked with him not listening...which i can understand why he wasnt. At the same time though, he should

Thank you knobblyknee

If he won't respect your boundaries, you are entitled to tell him you've sprouted wings and flown to the moon if it keeps him away.

It's just another example of the fact that he thinks he can do whatever he wants. AND that you were right to make the report!

It is really isnt it

He has said it was me, basically. I feel sick.

Deep breaths. This was only to be expected. Think. It's not likely that he would have said "Oh yes, I assaulted her". So, try to relax. You know the truth. And those who know you know you wouldn't lie.

Regardless of the outcome, he now knows that you will NOT just allow him to make free with your body. And that's very important. He knows you will NOT be a victim.

Remember, we all sort of knew it would be 'he said/she said'. But that the important part was that you had your say.

Is this issue being taken any further by the police?

Yes youre completely right. Thank you.
Its being given to the CPS

I think that means that the police, at least, think it's worth pursuing? Otherwise they would have just dropped it? I'm not sure how it works in the UK.

I would like to think that. I do believe they pass it to them regardless, though im not 100%