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to expect a text after we slept together?

606 replies

BigOCupOfTea · 25/10/2015 13:43

So I've been seeing a guy for around a month and we had our fifth date and I stayed at his and we slept together.

We both left early as he had work.

He would have finished work by now and I've heard nothing from him.

Am I expecting too much?

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pinotblush · 25/10/2015 21:31

The man was rude and assuming.

He should have text her today.

MilkyChops · 25/10/2015 21:31

Did she get a text then ?

I'm lost.

sharonthewaspandthewineywall · 25/10/2015 21:32

Pinot have you been sniffing Bostik? I am not seeing what you are trying to imply at all

ilovesooty · 25/10/2015 21:32

She specifically accused me of being passive aggressive.

I take a very dim view of that.

LineyReborn · 25/10/2015 21:37

Yes, he texted the OP around 6-ish.

pinotblush · 25/10/2015 21:39

I have no idea why you are asking me if Ive been sniffing glue sharon?

Sooty, you are rather passive aggressive when it suits you Grin

DixieNormas · 25/10/2015 21:40

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goddessofsmallthings · 25/10/2015 21:41

Confused Are we voting on what the text said? Is there a chance Graham Norton will play with operate the Swingometer?

Candidate A

Ur a lousy lay. Byeee 4ever.

Candidate B

Ur a gr8 lay. R u up 4 anotha shag tonite?

ilovesooty · 25/10/2015 21:41

pinot the emoticon after that doesn't make it any less insulting.

DixieNormas · 25/10/2015 21:44

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WorraLiberty · 25/10/2015 21:45

I'm sure this was the text and the OP's reply Grin

to expect a text after we slept together?
ilovesooty · 25/10/2015 21:45

Thanks Dixie

It was being singled out like that that I didn't like.

goddessofsmallthings · 25/10/2015 21:47

Confused Are we voting on what the text said? Is there still a chance Graham Norton will play with operate the Swingometer?

Candidate A

Ur a lousy lay. Byeee 4ever.

Candidate B

Ur a gr8 lay. R u up 4 anotha shag tonite?

Coconutty · 25/10/2015 21:48

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pinotblush · 25/10/2015 21:48

If someone called me passive aggressive and someone else laughed at the fact they did then I'd look at myself sooty.

ilovesooty · 25/10/2015 21:49

Thanks Coconutty

pinotblush · 25/10/2015 21:49

When an aggressive poster gets a knock back then they call troll Grin

goddessofsmallthings · 25/10/2015 21:50

Duplicate posts with 6 minutes between them. It's uncanny, I tellya. Spooky times are starting early.

DixieNormas · 25/10/2015 21:54

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pinotblush · 25/10/2015 21:55

I stated

The OP is dating

She slept with a guy

He changed his pattern of response

He didnt speak to her

I told her he was probably one of the shag and leave brigade

I told her not to text

I supported the OP in this

pinotblush · 25/10/2015 21:56

Im on the same thread as you dixie

DixieNormas · 25/10/2015 21:58

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WorraLiberty · 25/10/2015 21:58

I told her he was probably one of the shag and leave brigade

And you think that ^^ was supportive, given that the guy was at work and only spoke to her this morning?

Weird.

pinotblush · 25/10/2015 21:59
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pinotblush · 25/10/2015 22:02

The texts changed and she knew it. She came for support. You tell her she's being insecure. No she isnt.

He changed, she didnt.

I know many men that are at work and can still find time to send a text.

Im sure he text her plenty of times when he was at "work" before.

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