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to expect a text after we slept together?

606 replies

BigOCupOfTea · 25/10/2015 13:43

So I've been seeing a guy for around a month and we had our fifth date and I stayed at his and we slept together.

We both left early as he had work.

He would have finished work by now and I've heard nothing from him.

Am I expecting too much?

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AnotherTimeMaybe · 25/10/2015 20:57

What's the point of us all helping the OP through this? We hold her hand all day and as soon as cockwand texts her she ditches us and fucks off. I am out. OP you're a tit.

I wouldn't put it like that but yes I agree....

OP I wouldn't jump back to bed with him , especially if you had to come to AIBU for him!

EstellaHavisham · 25/10/2015 20:59

I haven't posted on this thread before but...

FOR PETE'S SAKE OP WHAT DID HIS TEXT SAY??

pinotblush · 25/10/2015 21:06

I would fuck off I got most of your responses.

pinotblush · 25/10/2015 21:07

The OP came on here wanting support, she ended up firefighting for herself.

I hope to fuck she doesnt come back.

IfNotNowThenWhenever · 25/10/2015 21:08
pinotblush · 25/10/2015 21:10

Its a minefield in the dating pool.

DioneTheDiabolist · 25/10/2015 21:10

Did it say "Thank you"?

I sent DP a text the day after we had sex for the first time thanking him. I knew he was expecting me to say something, but I wasn't sure what. I hoped the tone struck the correct balance between sexy and polite.

He thought it was s bit weird, but nice.Blush

Waltermittythesequel · 25/10/2015 21:11

pinot you're taking the thread a little personally.

OP doesn't seem bothered in the least by the responses.

WorraLiberty · 25/10/2015 21:11

This thread is now hilarious in about 3 different ways Grin

Seriously, why are some people so over invested?

NameChange30 · 25/10/2015 21:11

Dione That is a bit weird! Thank you for a great night, fine, but thank you for the shag?! Nah!

pinotblush · 25/10/2015 21:12

All these smug comments are cruel and uncalled for.

The OP sort of knew the answer but didnt want to realise it (ive been there)

Not her fault at all.

No damn support as usual.

CurlyhairedAssassin · 25/10/2015 21:13

LOL at everyone who said he should have done the decent thing, not just kept Her hanging on, and just texted her. It's exactly what the OP is doing to everyone on here desperate to know what his text said.

pinotblush · 25/10/2015 21:13

Fucking AIBU vipers.

Waltermittythesequel · 25/10/2015 21:15

pinot I don't mean to head tilt but...

Are you ok?!

pinotblush · 25/10/2015 21:17
Grin
pinotblush · 25/10/2015 21:18

The OP would have been better to put this on relationships not AIBU.

WorraLiberty · 25/10/2015 21:18

I must admit, things have turned a bit awkward, haven't they? Grin

ilovesooty · 25/10/2015 21:21

The OP did her fair share of insulting other people as well.

DixieNormas · 25/10/2015 21:22

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ClashCityRocker · 25/10/2015 21:23

Jesus I'm glad im not dating nowadays. It all seems like much harder work than it used to be.

Waltermittythesequel · 25/10/2015 21:24

Awkward...

to expect a text after we slept together?
pinotblush · 25/10/2015 21:27

The Op was asking for support and ended up firefighting Sooty.

Personally I would expect a text. I wouldnt expect an all day silence. Thats rude.

ilovesooty · 25/10/2015 21:28

pinot I still think her comments to me were unjustified.

pinotblush · 25/10/2015 21:28

Not an excuse being knackered for all that sex! what on earth!

So a woman should have sex and wait for him to stop being knackered from it?

pinotblush · 25/10/2015 21:30

Sooty, she was bombarded with negative, she only asked what we all would in the dating pool.