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to expect a text after we slept together?

606 replies

BigOCupOfTea · 25/10/2015 13:43

So I've been seeing a guy for around a month and we had our fifth date and I stayed at his and we slept together.

We both left early as he had work.

He would have finished work by now and I've heard nothing from him.

Am I expecting too much?

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ThroughThickAndThin01 · 25/10/2015 20:02

Absolutely Surfer thank fuck Ive shackled Dh to me. The dating scene? Omg. I'd be getting it all wrong.

Axekick · 25/10/2015 20:02

Around the time you started adding my name multiple times to posts.

I may not make sense to you...as you said some people have insight some don't.

It's been blast! Wine

florencebabyjo · 25/10/2015 20:02

FFS, I've just spent the last 20 minutes reading the whole of this thread. No text, to text or not then a text and then nothing! Maybe the text was so good she's run off to a repeat of last night. At least have the decency to let everyone know how it went

AnotherTimeMaybe · 25/10/2015 20:03

the op said earlier she was going for dinner, he probably got home from work and went for a nap after all the shagging last night/this morning
Or re-shagging right now!

AnotherTimeMaybe · 25/10/2015 20:04

florencebabyjo
Haha XPGrin

florencebabyjo · 25/10/2015 20:05

God let's hope so!

monkina · 25/10/2015 20:06

Still no update?!....sigh! Rooting for you OP, please update us when you can- you did ask! ??

LonnyVonnyWilsonFrickett · 25/10/2015 20:08

She's gone out for dinner, hasn't she, she just posted that update on her way out of the door. And then she'll probably go for a shag. It's going to be a long night...

IrianofWay · 25/10/2015 20:12

"Blimey, that sounds more like buying real estate than being in a romantic relationship grin"

Exactly what I was thinking!

florencebabyjo · 25/10/2015 20:17

God let's hope she doesn't spend the whole of tomorrow wondering if he's going to text. Don't think I have the strength to go through another thread like this!

ProfessorPickles · 25/10/2015 20:20

It's so frustrating reading an entire thread and getting to the end and there being no conclusion! Grin Hope it was a good text OP!

ICantThinkOfAUsernameH · 25/10/2015 20:32

Please update soon OP Grin

Alwayssunny · 25/10/2015 20:36

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TiggyD · 25/10/2015 20:39

I hope he at least gave you a good review on Trip Advisor.

iMatter · 25/10/2015 20:40

Haha TiggyD!

bimandbam · 25/10/2015 20:41

Oh for gods sake op. You are as bad as him.

You built us up, made us like you, had us rooting for you. Then bam. Nothing.

JUST TELL US WHAT THE BASTARDING TEXT SAID!

It's distracting me from x factor now.

LineyReborn · 25/10/2015 20:42

I think a one winged fly would distract me from the X Factor.

ICantThinkOfAUsernameH · 25/10/2015 20:45

bim me too! I'm listening to X factor but obsessively checking this thread ! Blush

HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 25/10/2015 20:47

I have no X Factor to be distracted from Sad

florencebabyjo · 25/10/2015 20:48

Shall we start another vote? Is she going to text or not?
Text:0 Not Text: 1

iMatter · 25/10/2015 20:50

Reply 0 ; lead us up the garden path 10

ILiveAtTheBeach · 25/10/2015 20:51

What's the point of us all helping the OP through this? We hold her hand all day and as soon as cockwand texts her she ditches us and fucks off. I am out. OP you're a tit.

lolbox20 · 25/10/2015 20:51

Text: 0; not text: 2

pinotblush · 25/10/2015 20:51

No fucking idea why you want to know.

The only one if ever, is one saying she dumped his sad sorry arse, not one saying he made it better and gave her a load of shit!

The man:

Ive been very busy, apologies for not getting back to you

OP:

........ silence.

NameChange30 · 25/10/2015 20:54

I agree with Seldom and Beach. YOU USED US OP. Sad

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