to expect a text after we slept together?

[BigOCupOfTea]

So I've been seeing a guy for around a month and we had our fifth date and I stayed at his and we slept together.

We both left early as he had work.

He would have finished work by now and I've heard nothing from him.

Am I expecting too much?

oh i am bored now.
i liked being the Returning Officer of Mumsnet

You can put the chairs up on the tables, Brenda.

Unfortunately nasty is remembered more than kind :(

very true! I'll think of you everytime I open my favourite wine

I don't know, I'd expect a text.

But then, I wouldn't have any qualms about sending the first text.

If it turns out he guys an arsehole, he isn't going to be any less of an arsehole if you text first.

Hope the text was ok op.

Axekick

I hope so!

I'd expect a text too

Bloody hell Axel you've really pissed on someones chips this evening haven't you!

Axe even ffs autocorrect

It will be the total opposite for me Axe.

When I open my wine you will not be in my thoughts at all.

I wouldn't assume that the text was bad.

I have asked the OP several questions, which she has ignored, throughout the thread.

Haha @ all the posters who told her she was needy now demanding to know what the text said because they can't function until they know

I don't think men have all the power.

I don't feel that when I have sex with someone I am giving them something. I choose to have sex with them. I choose whether to contact them afterwards.

It's only a game if you make it one. And game is kind of a misrepresentation, it's not actually fun. It's more like an exercise in self control.

Anyway, OP, I hope it was fun and I hope his text was good. If he's turned out to be a twat, try not to beat yourself up.

Perhaps they're busy shagging, which is why she hasn't been back

(I'm 25, if that's relevant. Maybe it's more equal for the 20s dating scene? I don't know).

Bloody hell Axel you've really pissed on someones chips this evening haven't you!

It's ok...I will answer to Axel too

And yes I have.....I am a chip pissing viper!!

pinot day made..thanks.

If you go to the next level with a man then of course you expect the pattern to stay the same or increase.

If the man OP is talking about didnt do that then I'd get shot of him.

He has not done the right thing.

ok then axe.

Haha @ all the posters who told her she was needy now demanding to know what the text said because they can't function until they know

This made me laugh because it's true!!

you aren't making sense axe, when did you open the wine?

I don't think men have all the power but I do think the man should treat the woman with respect & be the first to text.

But I'm also glad I'm no longer dating, I'd be a nervous wreck checking my phone every 5 minutes.

Haha yeah it is true I'm obsessively checking back for an update

Fuck me.

This thread has made no sense for the last 15 minutes or so

Im glad it's not just me thinking that Worra