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to expect a text after we slept together?

606 replies

BigOCupOfTea · 25/10/2015 13:43

So I've been seeing a guy for around a month and we had our fifth date and I stayed at his and we slept together.

We both left early as he had work.

He would have finished work by now and I've heard nothing from him.

Am I expecting too much?

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CheersMedea · 25/10/2015 19:23

I would like to point out that the bribery came not from Moldova, the former Soviet republic cruelly severed from its mother country Romania, but rather Moldavia,

LOL @ Liney.

They must have worked hard to rebuild their country after that massacre. 30 years later you'd think they could stretch to more than a Betamax video and a broken Amstrad by way of bribery.

lorelei9 · 25/10/2015 19:24

okay I'm still here Grin

the text said........drumroll.....

"I heard from my team mates that you're talking about me on one of the UK's biggest chat forums. I'm down with that - just make sure you exaggerate my size".

Axekick · 25/10/2015 19:25

Of course men and women are different.

However dating isn't a one way thing. We have left the days of 'he must foot the bill and arrange the date and walk you to and from your door'

Dating is much more equal now. Even when I was younger girls asking boys out was deemed really gutsy. Now it's not really...well in RL.

You can't complain about your partner not doing something when you don't do it either, imp.

Axekick · 25/10/2015 19:26

Or rather imo not imp.....no imps in the future either! Grin

Axekick · 25/10/2015 19:27

"I heard from my team mates that you're talking about me on one of the UK's biggest chat forums. I'm down with that - just make sure you exaggerate my size".

I really really want this to be true

pinotblush · 25/10/2015 19:27

Fuck sake.

Do you not realise there is a real human being with feelings behind the post?

OP, If I were you I'd close this down due to viperism and keep the reply to yourself.

Don't feed the beasts!

GloriaHotcakes · 25/10/2015 19:27

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pinotblush · 25/10/2015 19:28

No, dating is not much more equal now, if you think that then there is something very wrong with you. Men still have the damn power.

Axekick · 25/10/2015 19:29

OP, If I were you I'd close this down due to viperism and keep the reply to yourself.

Please show me some viperism, I can't see it

pinotblush · 25/10/2015 19:31

Some people have insight and some dont axe Grin

iMatter · 25/10/2015 19:31

Can't. Breathe. What. Did. Text. Say?

sharonthewaspandthewineywall · 25/10/2015 19:31

Have you had too much pinot blush? I cant quite see what you are seeing

Axekick · 25/10/2015 19:31

No, dating is not much more equal now, if you think that then there is something very wrong with you. Men still have the damn power.

What power? Anyone with a mobile from the 90s onwards has the power to text

sharonthewaspandthewineywall · 25/10/2015 19:32

Okay you have insight.
Nobody else does mind boggles

Axekick · 25/10/2015 19:32

Ah well we Pinot I can read English! Still no viperism coming throughWink

pinotblush · 25/10/2015 19:33

some people are kind and some people arent Axe.

some people understand what the OP is saying and some people dont Axe.

some people have to try to turn their posts around to make others feel like fools and some dont Axe.

helenahandbag · 25/10/2015 19:33

I'm going to assume that the text wasn't a particularly good one, the OP wasn't exactly gushing about it when she first read it and now she has disappeared Sad

Axekick · 25/10/2015 19:34

Amazing...you know my name!!

Well done Pinot!

SpendSpendSpend · 25/10/2015 19:35

I hope it was a positive text.

ICantThinkOfAUsernameH · 25/10/2015 19:35

Hope the text was ok OP :)

Axekick · 25/10/2015 19:37

Fwiw I haven't extended any vipery posts to the OP.

I stand by my point, she is wondering why he hasn't text....she could text him.

She could take some control of her own situation.

No has been rude or had a go at the OP, we have expressed our opinions.....

LineyReborn · 25/10/2015 19:37

You know what, it might have been one of those texts that's a bit neutral. Hard to read. They are the trickiest to negotiate.

Muddlewitch · 25/10/2015 19:37

Hope you are ok op, I have given up on dating due to these kinds of issues.

OP did say she was going out tonight for a meal with friends I think. If so, hope you are having a lovely time whatever the text said.

pinotblush · 25/10/2015 19:37

Amazing...you know my name!!

Well done Pinot!

Unfortunately nasty is remembered more than kind :(

Axekick · 25/10/2015 19:38

helena fingers crossed for the OP that it was a really good one!!!