to expect a text after we slept together?

[BigOCupOfTea]

So I've been seeing a guy for around a month and we had our fifth date and I stayed at his and we slept together.

We both left early as he had work.

He would have finished work by now and I've heard nothing from him.

Am I expecting too much?

Despairs of Axe

The OP expected the right thing to be done.

It didn't happen.

There was some Moldovan bribery

I googled this and still don't know it means...sorry

I would like to point out that the bribery came not from Moldova, the former Soviet republic cruelly severed from its mother country Romania, but rather Moldavia, home of the valiant Prince Michael Praed and Lady Collins of Krystle Carrington-Maze.

Obviously it was a nice text and OP is all loved up and no longer needs us. I feel used. :-(

She's not texting for obvious reasons. Can't believe some of you don't get why It's the man's place to text because in male culture sex is a conquest. The OP has "given it up'" because she liked him. The very LEAST he can do is text her.

DON'T TEXT

Axe you can't Google quality history like that, you have to live it.

Oops, got to page 10

I need to know what he said !!!!!! No wifi in five minutes.

Oh, dear god.

Liney

Don't text op

I don't think YABU OP. When there is proper promise in the relationship, I have never known there not to be a text the next day saying "last night was nice" or "thanks for a great evening" etc.

Cheesy but reassuring. On the occasions there have been no text, it's always been bad news. Even if I texted.

But he has texted now so its all sorted

Maybe they are away willy waggling again...

Thing is, OP is now in a right tricky situation.
If she responds to text immediately, she risks him thinking she's been waiting for him to text all day.
If she nonchalently waits a while, how long before he gets itchy?

He's just text now

THEN NOTHING ELSE!! WHAT IS THIS TORTURE?

SAFEGATE ALL OVER AGAIN!

The correct length of time is 55 minutes.

Well, what did he say?

Sakura - do you have DC? If so I hope you're not bringing them up to believe this crap.

If communication patterns decrease after sex where you want a relationship - get shot of them.

His text will be purely wishy washy and keeping you there maybe for another emotionally univested visit.

I've just RTFT and I need to know what the text said! Please OP!! Don't leave us hanging.

Axe you can't Google quality history like that, you have to live it.

You mean Google does not hold all the answers?

IPaid

Unfortunately this is the difference between boys and girls. It will never change as much as you think it will or pretend it has.

Pinot and the longer people like you perpetuate this myth the more ridiculous this world becomes

Its not a myth at all.

Men and women are different.

The longer you pretend they arent the more confusing life becomes for both parties.