to expect a text after we slept together?

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So I've been seeing a guy for around a month and we had our fifth date and I stayed at his and we slept together.

We both left early as he had work.

He would have finished work by now and I've heard nothing from him.

Am I expecting too much?

Come on tell us what he said!!

Ah come on op after all this you have to tell us what he said, not exactly but was it good or bad?

FGS woman will you please stop teasing- what did he say?

They're busy having text sex.

Kofi Annan gives his blessing.

I have read the entire thread, laughed my bollocks off at the UN poll and the vote rigging and even more at the people taking some ofthe flippant comments so literally - and now I'm dying to know what the text said?

And me. Has he set out his manifesto or did he do that last night?

I honestly hope it was a nice text.

Kofi Annan gives his blessing.

Don't you mean Ban Ki-Moon?

FGS woman will you please stop teasing- what did he say?

So we've been seeing a guy for around a month texting on MN for about 2 hours and we had our fifth date 328th post and I stayed at his and we slept together. about the OPs lack of text.

OP says she's had a text
We've heard nothing from her as to what it said

Are we expecting too much?

Wouldnt blame the OP to not reveal.

Some of the people on here should be well and truly ashamed of themselves.

He's woken up and texted? What a swizz. I was looking forward to Graham Norton on the Swingometer livening up the early hours with an Election Night report.

Dont tell them OP

Stop feeding the fire.

I BLOODY HEART THIS THREAD

Why should anyone be ashamed of themselves... I have more or less followed this thread and apart from a split on text or don't text, I haven't seen any vitriol

is the election over?

oh NOOOOOOOOO

I am terribly afraid it was a " you're lovely but I am not looking for a relationship" text.
Or alternatively " get over here now for a repeat performance ".
Either way, hope you're OK, OP.

I run very retro elections, CheersMedea.

Oh I hope it was filthy

Why should anyone be ashamed of themselves... I have more or less followed this thread and apart from a split on text or don't text, I haven't seen any vitriol

Yeah - I was thinking the same thing Rousette

Possible texts OP has had:

I had a great time last night but my sister posts on MNs. She made me read this thread about expecting a text. . .

Some of the people on here should be well and truly ashamed of themselves.

Did I miss something?

YANBU

I would have been a 1 for the 'don't send him a text message'

Hope it's a good one.........

let us know soon please..........

We'll never know, OP is gonna leave us hanging like that bloody safe!!

Did I miss something?

There was some Moldovan bribery .. .

Dammit, I didn't get to vote or find out what he texted. I feel cheated.

I would have texted with exactly the same speed and tone post-shag as pre-shag, but once only. At those points in a relationship where it's easy to come across as needy, I find it best to stick to a text for a text rule until I feel on more solid ground and any worries have receded. Plus it's worth bearing in mind that men are not mind readers and only know you're needy if you make it obvious by sending plaintive, multiple or passive aggressive texts. Which I wouldn't recommend - needy is not an attractive trait. Most of us feel it sometimes but it's best ridden out whilst the man in question remains oblivious (source: male best friends).