Dd still cross with me about a level results night...

[Hannahspannaaah]

After dd1 received her as level results a month ago (she did really well so was very happy for her/relieved) she planned to have a night out with her friends. They were going to go to a party or somesuch in someone's field and then sleepover in a tent. Fine.

She was cheeky to me that day though end her sister (who also received results that day) was in a pickle as she'd had a friendship fallout and no evening plans. I saw red and "forbade" her to go out (!!) not proud of that, and suggested a family night in.

It has now transpired that dd is still a bit resentful about that! Do you think I was unreasonable?? I can see that maybe I was but feel like it's a bit late to make it up to her. I feel bad

[madein1995]

I can't believe she listened to you - I certainly wouldn't have at that age. That said, I do think she needs to get over it. It was over a month ago so best thing is just to move on. Perhaps you could apologize but she should leave it at that. frankly I'm astonished she's brought it up again - what happened to leaving the past in the past? With all due respect OP she's closer to an adult than she is a teenager and as such needs to learn not to bring up things that happened a while ago and are not relevant. I'd be having words about her bringing it back up with you - how can she still be pissed off this long afterwards. For goodness sake grow up woman (your daughter, not you)

[Topseyt]

I can't believe this one is still rumbling on.

An error of judgment by the OP, yes. She acknowledged that days ago now so no need to keep piling in with it.

Crime of the century? Nope.