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To ask why we can't have a sex board?

207 replies

paintedfences · 28/04/2015 20:47

We have one for everything else under the sun after all.!

But every time anyone says anything to do with sex in Chat or AIBU it gets a suspicious response. Couldn't we just have one that's not accessible unless you're a logged in user?

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Sparklingbrook · 28/04/2015 21:31

Just look for the thread more. I expect it's still there. There's some good laundry tips on it.

Hassled · 28/04/2015 21:31

Because it will be a veritable magnet for every sleazy perv across the whole of the interweb.

paintedfences · 28/04/2015 21:32

I love how 'talking about sex and sexuality' how somehow morphed into 'discussing JUICY DETAILS OF YOUR INTIMATE LIFE'.

I also love the tone of judginess - can we leave out the pearl clutching?

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Sparklingbrook · 28/04/2015 21:33

There you go MNHQ are having a look into it. Smile

Christinayangstwistedsister · 28/04/2015 21:34

It could have a DIY Section, vibrators have been done so all we need is one for the pegging....thinking gaffa tape and a cucumber

paintedfences · 28/04/2015 21:34

No, expatinscotland I have no friends. Not a one. (Well, I made a sock puppet. It's name is George.)

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morethanpotatoprints · 28/04/2015 21:35

Can there not be a halfway house?
A bit like cannabis used to be, a decriminalised sex board.
MNHQ let them stand if they are harmless enough but zapp if too offensive

HermioneWeasley · 28/04/2015 21:35

I prefer them coming up in the other topics as part of the rich tapestry of discussion. I fear a "sex" topic would just be trolls thigh rubbing, and there are definitely some genuine, non Pervy sex threads on here.

The list forgot Brian and his yoni massage though.

Oh and pegging is shagging your DH in the arse using a sex toy.

MN is very educational.

expatinscotland · 28/04/2015 21:36

Cool, go tell it all about your sex life and wank over it.

MrsKravitzFromAcrossTheStreet · 28/04/2015 21:37

I think it's a great idea, I would enjoy it! Perhaps MN could make admission to the Sex Board dependent on the poster having made a certain number of posts over a reasonable length of time in the other forums, IYSWIM? To deter trolls I mean.

I have used the boards on LoveHoney to ask questions and they honestly didn't seem to be overrun with rabid pervs, just normal people who were perfectly pleasant and helpful.

usualsuspect333 · 28/04/2015 21:37

Plenty of posters are only too happy to discuss their sex lives on MN.

paintedfences · 28/04/2015 21:38

Er, okay then expatinscotland Confused.

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morethanpotatoprints · 28/04/2015 21:38

Ah, just googled it.
Is that what its called.

BathshebaDarkstone · 28/04/2015 21:39

Now I really want a sex board. Grin

BathshebaDarkstone · 28/04/2015 21:46

Shock at pegging!

OneEyedWilly · 28/04/2015 22:32

I think it's a great idea, why shouldn't a group of grown women have a place to post about sex issues/questions/preferences? I've seen other sites with topics for sex-related questions and they didn't seem to be packed with pervs and trolls to me. They seemed to be full of helpful and knowledgeable people.

By the way - you don't have to be some friendless weirdo to want to discuss sex on the Internet. There are some things I wouldn't talk about with my mates, I'd be too embarrassed.

That's the whole point of MN isn't it? To garner a large number of opinions or advice under the blessed cover of anonymity? Why shouldn't we have a sex board for the same purpose?

ChampagneTastes · 28/04/2015 22:35

I'd like a sex board please! I'm far too repressed to ever discuss it in real life and so I'm in a constant state of anxiety about what's normal and what isn't! And if anyone posts about sex on the other boards they tend to be treated as trolls. Plus this is an anonymous forum so why not?

Anniegetyourgun · 28/04/2015 22:39

I picture a sex board being somewhat like a Twister board, with "place foot here... now place hand here" markers, plus a few extra options. And a wipe-clean surface, of course.

ImpishElf · 28/04/2015 22:44

Haha the banner across the top of the page says "tell us your most intimate thoughts..."

I would also read such a board and would also find talking about such things face to face with friends embarrassing.

morethanpotatoprints · 28/04/2015 22:44

The new game

Twister, the Kamasutra version.

SinisterBunnyMonth · 28/04/2015 23:08

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TakeMeUpTheNorthMountain · 28/04/2015 23:11

I had a sex board. ...but I fell off...

Badabing! !

SouthWestmom · 28/04/2015 23:18

Can we have a Bored Sex board for those of us just going through the motions before Casualty starts?

CaptainSubtext · 28/04/2015 23:20

I think we should have a TMI board. Bumsex, lost tampons and "I promise I'm not the poo troll" threads all in one handy place :o

meditrina · 28/04/2015 23:28

"Perhaps MN could make admission to the Sex Board dependent on the poster having made a certain number of posts over a reasonable length of time in the other forums, IYSWIM? To deter trolls I mean."

Yeah, right. It's not as if a long term poster has ever turned out to be a troll. Oh, hang on.

I think this is a dreadful idea. There are plenty of places to post threads about anything you can think of. And most topics are under used anyhow. We get enough sex trolls as it is (and it's been worse since PB). Add a sex board and there will be more, not fewer.

And I think the idea of MNHQ proactively moderating a topic is a huge policy change. Not one I would welcome. The lack of moderation is one of the things I like about this site.

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