To purposely avoid shaving? *half lighthearted*

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Bit of a weird one I know, But this is AIBU and I see weird sh*t here all the time so I'm sure none of you will choke on your pearls! Anyhow...
DP has always expressed a preference for me being shaven down there. Fairenough, we all have our preferences. I'm currently pregnant and due to feeling like death I dont feel like doing shower aerobics to get every last bit of hair.... We've still been having sex pretty regularly, every 1-2 days. However now DP has decided that he'd rather not have sex with me until I shave again... because it "feels and looks weird" like your penis maybe? WIBU to never shave again?

maryz

I am of the very firm belief that what goes on between your legs is your own business.
Hair / no hair / unicorn tattos / sparkles .
Go nuts.

I remember my husband commenting on my hairy legs when I was pregnant. The end result was him shaving them for me, and painting my toenails into the bargain....

public pools are so gross anyway. All that pee and athletes foot in the water. pubes probably serve some helpful purpose now I have learned that they attract and suck up bacteria etc. So you could go to the pool, get covered in yukky stuff, come home and remove all body hair and bingo! you are decontaminated. Fine as long as you only go twice a year to give it time to fully grow back.

Yes I did see rude comment to me further down but have chosen to ignore it because it is just too silly.

This thread kicked off then?

I knew this one would kick off,Maryz.

I usually avoid pube threads on MN. TMI people.

Don't understand all this shaving privates lark, hair wouldn't grow if it wasn't meant to be there for some reason.

Every time I've removed any hair from my bikini line I've had horrendous itching and regrowth rash which has sometimes got infected. When I had a wax it took off half the skin from my labia. Even trimming made it really itchy.
A stray pube doesn't bother me anymore I've been natural for years. I don't know what DH prefers, I've never asked him. My bush is my business not his. He obviously isn't too bothered by the natural look as we've been together for almost 17 years.
I'd like to think the man I loved could look past anything regarding my appearance and still want to have sex with me. I used to think a hairy back was unattractive on a man, DH's back got hairier as he got older and I still fancy the pants off him.

Indeed notso the primary advantage of loving whole people and not just their physical appearance is that it will more likely stand the passage of time.

My DH asked me today if it would embarrass me if he tied his hair in a ponytail. I was knocked over that he bothered to ask....I gave him an elastic and now he can see where he is going hurrah!

Hair, no hair, ponytail, sudden outbreak of skin problems...none of it matters a damn or changes the way I see him at all.