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To wonder why there has STILL been no donation?

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kewtogetin · 29/03/2015 20:05

This has probably been done, I know there was a long running thread about this very subject but I can't find it?
So, several months on I see Dax's parents have still not made the promised donation to Ronald McDonald hospice. On March 2nd they updated the Facebook page to say they works be making the donation 'very soon', but still nothing.
Am I the only one thinking they have no intention of donating any money out of the tens of thousands donated to them? That in fact they intend to keep it all and deny the very charity that provided them with so much support in the early weeks of their Childs life?
In fact, I don't think im the only one judging by the comments on the Facebook page.
I think they're hoping it will blow over and if they keep quiet long enough people will forget.

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JoanHickson · 11/04/2015 17:58

The date of donations will be published if it's anonymous. Grin

See if this comment lasts.

To wonder why there has STILL been no donation?
HouseBot · 11/04/2015 18:07

Interesting - the latest post does not have the bluster or aggressive of previous ones. Wonder why they have not said how much?

TheFairyCaravan · 11/04/2015 18:14

Wonder why they have not said how much?

Maybe they are hoping RMH won't reveal how small much it was?

soverylucky · 11/04/2015 18:18

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VenetiaFleet · 11/04/2015 18:19

The whole thing leaves a very nasty taste in the mouth and I feel so sorry for poor Dax to be used like this by his parents.

JoanHickson · 11/04/2015 18:19

K: We have to donate
L: just sling them £10 and hide how much we donated.
K: they noticed we hid how much we donated.

L: Chris is good with photo shop, let's photo shop the receipt to show how much we donated and put that on the page.

shewept · 11/04/2015 18:20

Thanks fluffy. Bet the comment asking why they cropped it so you can't see the donation amount doesn't last long.

Weebirdie · 11/04/2015 18:22

It does seem as if the money is long since gone and this talk of a personal donation is their way around the problem.

But you know what? I think this pair are so ignorant and thick skinned that nothing about this situation will bother them, but that said the wee boy will grow up one day and google his story and there will be much for him to think about.

You know the old saying - you can fool some of the people some of the time but you cant fool all of the people all of the time and that will include DAX.

Cantbelievethisishappening · 11/04/2015 18:23

The whole thing stinks..... they blocked me for asking them VERY reasonably when they plan to make a donation

shewept · 11/04/2015 18:25

So have they had 5k into katies PayPal, a gofundme account and the gogetfunding account? I am adding that up to approaching 30k

LilMissSunshine9 · 11/04/2015 18:25

You know as soon as they started saying it was to cover the rent and bills etc. I posted a number of times why they need £11k to cover rent and bills because quite frankly if I was in their situation and need to cover my mortgage and bills in zone 4 London for 3 months I would need £3.5k. They didn't stay 3 months but 2 months and live in Lincolnshire and having seen that they are clearly not living in a castle how on earth does rent and bills come anywhere near to £11k from gofundme + £5k in personal pay pal. This is why everyone is expecting a huge donation because if they did indeed keep some back to cover their bills then you would still expect to see at least £10k to be donated.

When people were raising questions why don't they sell their car responses were why should they - why should they have to sell anything or make sacrifices. Unfortunately that is life and sometimes you fall on hard times and should not expect joe public to pay to keep your lavish lifestyle. More to the point that they are self employed and I work with lots of self employed people and those that have children start saving early to ensure they can cover the time they will be off. Infact they generally put enough away incase they are light on work. So really there is no excuse to need people to pay their rent and bills.

onadifferentplanet · 11/04/2015 18:27

Isn't the picture they have posted just part of the general donation page on the RM web page? Not confirmation of a donation

JoanHickson · 11/04/2015 18:29

Someone donate and screen shot your receipt to their page.

ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 11/04/2015 18:29

They have so just chucked them (RMHNY) a fiver...

SagaNorensLeatherTrousers · 11/04/2015 18:32

They have only cropped the donation page! You can do that without making a donation!! Shock

www.rmh-newyork.org/give

ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 11/04/2015 18:33

Isn't the picture they have posted just part of the general donation page on the RM web page? Not confirmation of a donation

Well spotted Shock
www.rmh-newyork.org/give

Guess they are taking the piss...

TheFairyCaravan · 11/04/2015 18:41

Someone ask on the Fb group about it. They won't let me post because I said Allianz treated us well and they wouldn't need a fund!

shewept · 11/04/2015 18:47

Wtf? That's why the tone has changed they are taking the piss.

RebootYourEngine · 11/04/2015 18:48

On the fb page it does have a 'thanks for your donation' comment. The link here doesnt so maybe they have actually donated. At last.

soverylucky · 11/04/2015 18:50

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SagaNorensLeatherTrousers · 11/04/2015 18:56

No, it's exactly the same page. On the Donate page, without giving a donation, it says "Thank you for helping to provide a "home away from home" for children fighting cancer and their families." The bit that they have CROPPED continues as follows:

"Your donation to Ronald McDonald House New York is...made through a secure, encrypted connection. You can give with confidence and assurance that your personal and financial information is safe and secure."

No actual donation needed.

JoanHickson · 11/04/2015 18:57

They have been taking the piss since day one and the press enabled it. I really would like to see one of the broadsheets use this in exposing this nonsense.

An innocent baby was pimped out, a charity lost out, the English look scummy by association to these people, people internationally have been mislead.

Now they are piss taking with this fob off of a donation?

SagaNorensLeatherTrousers · 11/04/2015 19:01

Oh, I see what sovery is referring to. There is a bit added "Thank you for your donation" at the end of the original paragraph. Confused Why wouldn't there be an entirely new page saying thanks, though? It's not photo-shopped is it?

SagaNorensLeatherTrousers · 11/04/2015 19:03

Sorry, I mean Reboot.